She says they are "roomates" and refuses to admit it even though I know they are together, My brother told me he caught them having sex. When i confront my mom, she denyes it and tells me i am discusting, but she is discusting, she is the one who has been screwing him since he was 16 years old. What should i do?
2006-06-06 17:20:18 · 26 answers · asked by 1paris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think its her choice even if it isnt a good one. As long as you dont make the same one.(i dont think you will though)
2006-06-07 01:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by sayagirl91 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, let's see: She isn't breaking any laws, She is probably having the time of her life, He is no doubt without exception having the time of his young life, so where's the problem.
Now, if your mom is still married to your dad or someone else, that's a problem. If she is really hurting you badly with this affair, then that is a problem.
If this goes beyond a temporary infatuation, then THAT is a REAL problem and she probably needs some counseling -- which she will admit and do only after she realizes that what she is doing is probably morally and ethically wrong..
Hang in there. This too shall pass, and it's not worth ruining any relationship you have with your mother. I am sure you have made her aware of your disapproval, and that is ALL you can do.
2006-06-06 17:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by jbswfla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa sounds like drama... Best thing to do is talk with her.. calmly Talk to her like you already know she's doing this even though she denies it.. it will make you feel better.. I also think your upset because she is acting more like the child & you more like the parent..Those situations are tough.. Also why is it such a big deal to you still after 3 years.. does your brother have the same feelings... Maybe you need to not worry about her sex life and only worry about what makes her happy.. The only thing that is kinda worring is where were the parents of this guy when he was 16??And how did she meet him?? please add details.. this is interseting..
2006-06-06 17:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your mother live her own life. It's between her and the 18yrold now. If she was caught earlier, maybe it would be ok to call family services or something like that. But since you don't know for sure she was doing it two years ago, There isn't anything really wrong with it.
2006-06-06 17:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by slee z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she ever long gone tenting previously? have you ever been to the region they are going to? Is the chum woman? Is she and her chum cpr and prevalent aide qualified? Are the chum's father and mom going? If maximum of those solutions are no, then no i would not enable my daughter or son bypass. 18 or no longer your place your rules. she is eighteen and there are severe concerns to letting her bypass off like that. in case you want to enable her bypass, then basically bypass to the campsite, refer to the chum's father and mom. Have your daughter receive the pocket first aide and cpr app and that they take a small first aide kit. make useful they take an added telephone battery or a energizer battery powered telephone charger. and make useful she takes condoms. In case, their objective is to connect up with some boys.
2016-10-30 08:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean what should you do .
what has it got to do with you .
what about if it was the other way around ,you would be the first to say that your life was your busines
and so it is in reverse
so you do not like what your mother does ,tough cookie
mind your own business
and what did you have in mind .to put your mother in jail or cause a scandal
i am glad you are not a part of my family .
blood should be thicker than water .and people do hang their dirty washing in public
talk to her if you like but in reality everybody has to take responsibility of their own life .you are not your mothers keeper
2006-06-06 17:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax
2006-06-06 17:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by zappa_dappa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may threaten your mom to disown her if she does not stop such a disgusting behavior. If she continues inspite of that, you may walk out of her life before this scandal can affect your reputation also.
2006-06-06 18:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by mann54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention in school and remember that spell check is your friend!
Is your mom hot? If a 16/18 year old is doing her, she's either hot or easy...
2006-06-06 17:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont tell others shes your mother, shame man, at least 38 acceptable. Mayb shes looking 4 hot stuff which no longer ur father got. whrs ur father gurl?
2006-06-06 17:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by sonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of them are adults in the eyes of the law so let them be. It's really none of your business if she is having sex with him.
2006-06-06 17:25:06 · answer #11 · answered by Susan L 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋