Should I be upfront with him or just not even consider him to begin with?

Question

I am in contact with a guy online who mentions liking to travel and is taking a trip in the future and will wants to find his better half to accompany him. After emailing him a few times he mentions that with his job that he and his future girlfriend will be able to fly free. I am looking for committment and marriage and would never just travel with a guy as his "girlfriend" as I don't want to fall into that dead end situation. Should I press delete on him or go ahead and meet him? If we were to hit if off, how soon would I bring up something like that (the not traveling with a guy I'm not married to thing)? I do not wish to waste my precious time with someone who isn't looking for the same thing but I don't want to be too harsh either.

Answer 1

Honest opinion, be cautious meeting someone online is dangerous and always best to meet when you are both completely comfortable meeting in a crowded spot: diners, coffee shops etc. where there are big crowds and take a friend or someone with you. Traveling right after meeting is usually a warning sign, one which is not to be hasty but cautious.