one of them keeps e-mailing me
2006-06-06 16:58:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
you should talk to them and find out what happened and tell them how u felt about bein ditched. i know it sounds lame but it could work and you might forgive them. but if their still being jerks about it then just move on and make better friends.
2006-06-06 17:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by rdstace9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd need to have more information to know what you mean by "ditch" you. That's a widely used term which has some generally agreed upon interpretation, but the degree of "ditching" would be important to know, and how close of friends these people are, and what the individual who continues to e-mail you is saying is significant. Whether you stay pissed is somewhat related to the above issues I have named but, and I can speak from personal experience here, staying pissed is an energy draining experience, and the longer you do so the more drained and yet upset you will be. Staying pissed is also a good defense mechanism against similar "ditchings" but is no guarantee at all that you won't get ditched or otherwise hurt again. So, if you want, you can try your hand at forgiveness, which was a great difficulty for me to do and took a long time oftentimes. So, give me more information and I'll try to help further. God Bless ya and good luck.
2006-06-06 17:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should forgive them but talk to them about it becauseits not fair for anyone to get ditched. Its happended to me before i know how you feel. One time one of my friends ditched mr for another person and i was so mad! But i fogave her.
2006-06-06 17:02:36 · answer #3 · answered by Thesexybeast!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay pissed. There's no point in having friends. They'll just stab you in the back and steal your boyfriend.
2006-06-06 17:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by bunstihl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to forgive is great,till someone thinks u a fool 4 this. let them repent.world has many new things to do
2006-06-06 17:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is EXACTLY wut happened 2 me, and i moved groups and i like the peeps i am hanging out with now WAY more!!
2006-06-06 17:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by Allison S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋