How do girls actually get a boyfriend or even a boy to notice them?What I'm asking is how do you get a bf?

Question

I mean I'm not ugly I actually find myself pretty! There's absolutly nothing wrong with my body I love it! I just cain't figure out why I don't have a boyfriend!!!!

Answer 1

You can't find a boyfriend when you're looking. A potential boyfriend will pop up when you least expect it. Just be yourself, make yourself happy, hang out with a variety of people, be social, try new activities and just have fun. The boyfriend part with follow eventually.

Answer 2

Just let it happen. After all the methods out there - internet dating work colleagues - stay out of meeting people at work) the best method is double dating - your best freind's boyfreind's friend.

Don't be picky - know what you want and be realistic. You can get everyone you dream of unless if you are a celebrity. It is like finding a job - you don't get the job that you deserve because you have the right skills otherwise it would had been the perfect world. It is all about connections and good marketing next to having the right skills off course.

One last advice is about a mistake that girls fall in. Teasing is great but when you over do it it sucks for us guys. In order to get someone's attention you have to have something to offer to him - time - care - being a good listener. Mind games and heart games and waiting games would only get you the perverts and the insecures. Mind games to make up for incompatibility only lasts shot term. Sooner or later you will run out of mind games and who you are will decide whether the other pwrson wants to stay in the relationship.

Trying to get someone involved using mind games or getting him hooked up sexually doesn't last long and it actually leaves you with a hard break.

Good luck...

Answer 3

Just be cool. I got this ebook and it defined being cool as:

1) Being Independent In Your Thoughts
I quote, "When you act INDEPENDENT, you lean back, you do things because YOU decided you wanted to, you don't ask others what they think - instead you decide for yourself that you are fine walking away from your friends for a while when you're out, and your feelings are controlled by what YOU think, not
what others think or feel."

2) Being Comfortable Without "Control"
"when you're comfortable with not CONTROLLING the outcome to be exactly what you want in that moment, and you know that the world is bigger than what you're focusing on, it makes you MAGNETIC."

3) Being "Present"
"The easiest way to explain being present is
to remind you how you get when you're playing
sports or you're driving.

Things are happening so fast, and you're so
completely immersed in what you're doing, that
a few extraordinary things happen without you
having to "try":

- You tune out everything that doesn't involve
what's at hand.

- The "chatter" of your mind goes completely
silent.

- You instantly accept each new thing that is
introduced into your environment without judgment
and resistance."

4) Observing Your Emotions
"If you can first get yourself to the place where you're comfortable and confident with your creating your own emotional experience, and having it be the kind of experience a man will want to share, then you'll find that taking things to the next level with men will be about 10 times easier."

My tip? Get the ebook ;) It helped me alot.

Answer 4

Well, I am astounded that you dont have a boyfriend too. I don't know how pretty you are, I'll take your word on that. But you are bright, can spell, know the english language well, and know how to use it.
I can only figure, that in your part of town, the boys are all idiots.
I bet you will be a late bloomer, in a year or two, you will be beating off boys, using a baseball bat.
Don't worry hon, just get out there and keep slugging. You just might make one of those boys, very lucky, to get you.

Answer 5

Oh who knows when im not interested or im focused on so many other things thats when one tends to pop up..