okay, my guy and i have not had sex in a long time. we have been together for 6 years and we have not had sex but two or three times in the last year. when we do, it seems to come pretty easy for me, if you know what i mean, but it never works for him. he seems to run out of breath. he doesn't like me on top, i suggested it, so that he wouldn't have to do the work, but he likes to be in control, because he says he can't really move a lot when we do it like that. help. i am off of work the next two days, and i want to make it work.
2006-06-06 16:48:36 · 11 answers · asked by buebla 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like this guy needs a gym to work out in and build up some stamina.
And he seems a bit of a contol freak, imagine turning you down on being a cowgirl.
I think you should pack up your saddle and find you another horsey to play with.
2006-06-06 16:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you can do is be more aggressive with him. next time you have sex demand him to lie down on his back, maybe give a little oral at first to calm him, then sit on top of him and give him the best ride of his life. he will appreciate it after it is over and you will as well. just make him realize that he doesnt have to be in control all the time to have great sex..plus he will last longer if you are on top. : )
2006-06-06 23:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by unspecial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. If he doesn't like you on top how about on your hand's and knee's ,doggy style it feel's great , goes in deeper and you can both work out and if one get's tired the other one can still pound hard and deep and give you both the pleasure you seek. Maybe he want's a little a** action too , suprize him stick your finger somewhere it doesn't belong or turn over and relax gently though it can do alot of damage, have you ever just gave him a ******* to wake him up ,try he
he'll like it.
2006-06-06 23:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by Brendarella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes controll but lacks stamina try side lying positions him behind or you two facing eachother. He can still be close and in control but you can help him with the work
2006-06-06 23:52:31 · answer #4 · answered by mailie0880 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try oral. Try foreplay before actual intercourse. Try different positions. I know that there are more than him on top and you on top. Perhaps he needs to build up his endurance and you need to try sex more often that way he will not tire out so quickly. Hope this helps.
2006-06-06 23:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by tysha30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the lazy fat slob to get some exercise and cut back on the lard food. Then he will have a bit of stamina.
2006-06-06 23:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by uselessadvice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is having problems breathing maybe he she see a doctor. It could be that there are other problems in your relationship and they are surfacing in your love life. Maybe you need to seduce him. or maybe just give him an ultimatum. or be straight forward and just ask him what the he** his problem is so that you you can try and work things out.
2006-06-06 23:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by searching4something 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Some New Possens
2006-06-06 23:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by fate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is having trouble withstanding the act of sex and he's afraid to be honest.
2006-06-06 23:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may need some help. You need to have sex more often.
2006-06-06 23:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by ~Lindsey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋