Hey my loves...?

Question

hey everyone, thank's for everything, you've helped me through a lot! I appreciate it and God appreciates it too.

Tonight, my boyfriend changed. He told me he already found another girl, and shes better than me, like every other girl. Then he told me to never call, or hell call the police. Then i told him i love him, but i deserve better, so God will send me someone.

THen he went"Oh so your going to cheat on me" Then i went well, you found another girl. And he went"yeah but i never loved you, i lusted for you" then i went okay, well who cares then, you never loved me. Then hes like, any guy who gets with me hes going to hurt them. Then he called me a F*iNG* Dirty S*lUt. and other names.

I cant stop crying. My main struggle is not being able to stop talking to him, i've been abused too much.

How can i stop talking to him. I'm a christian.

And does he love me, and is he just saying that stuff to upset me?
Hes done this before, but tonight it seems serious.

God Bless!

Answer 1

He is obviously a loser. You sound like a smart girl. Ditch the loser, there are many other guys out there. There are good ones, I found one. Your soul mate is out there, he's looking for you to, tell that jerk to get lost. and when he comes running back. Just laugh at him, dont even consider taking him back. You can do better!!

Answer 2

Obviously your boyfriend is not a Christian. If u want to have a happy relationship, seek the will of the Lord. In Proverbs 19:14 " You may inherit all you may own from your parents, but a sensible wife is a gift from the Lord." Same with husband. U saw and witnessed the attitude of your boyfriend. Imagine if your boybriend become your husband? Surely he will have an affair, your marriage vow will be broken, broken family, and your children will be affected. Your home will be ruined. So my dear think of your future, let not your emotion affect your decisions. For the heart is the deceitful above all things. Jeremiah 17:9
Pray and u will be enlightened and become strong. Remember a husband is a gift from God...

Answer 3

Psalms 147:3- The Lord heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Ask the Lord to give you strength. I went thru some bad stuff in high school and this verse and Psalms 37 helped me thru. Maybe these will help you. I learned that Satan will attack you thru people, especially if have found favor with GOD. You could also read the story of Job. If he can't get to you through your foes, then he will get to you thru your loved ones. You shouldn't have to go thru that. I don't know if this helps, but read Titus 3:10. If he has done this more than once baby, then you need to get away. The bible says to a man love your wives as christ loved the church. I don't know if it's emotional or physical, but NEVER let a man put his hands on you. I'll pray for you.

Answer 4

You know that you deserve someone else a whole lot better than this guy who has obviously been mistreating you all along. And now is your chance to make a clean break, once and for all.

Be strong! Leave him and don't even look back this time around... or even consider talking to him anymore.

Don't you worry, you will find someone else who will appreciate you, love you and respect you much more, and he'll be very understanding in helping you get through your struggle now.

Peace be with you!

Answer 5

I am so sorry that you have had a hard time with this relationship. It seems like you are well aware of many of the issues that are going on with you. Nevertheless, I'm not sure that we are qualified to give you advice, since none of us knows you very well at all. I would say keep praying and find a counselor or other mental health professional who can help you through this.

Answer 6

Hey now being a christian you know God only helps those who help themselves. In my opinion your boyfriend gave you all the signs you need. I think you know what to do. I also think you just need to pray for the strength to do it. God be with you I know breaking up is hard to do but it sounds like sticking around could be dangerous. Oh yeah and the bit he said about other people with you, I think he is blowing you a bunch of self esteem stomping crap. You need to pick up and move on. Good Luck.

Answer 7

You've already identified your problem by stating that "you can't stop talking to him". The boy you're speaking of obviously isn't good for you. You need to eliminate him from your life as soon as possible. I don't know why you women insist upon hooking up with these types of men and then stay with them while they abuse you. Show some self respect for once and send him packing. He isn't worthy of a quality woman such as yourself. After you've done this, then concentrate on finding someone who will treat you like the sweethert you really are. You deserve and owe it to yourself. Thanks.

Answer 8

don't let this guy treat you like this. Whether he loves you or not, he's messed up in the head. Find yourself someone who will treat you like the Goddess you are.

Kick this one to the curb and don't shed another tear, he doesn't deserve it. Everyone has a kismet. YOu need to find your soulmate and stop wasting your time with losers like this guy. He's a loser to treat you like that. with a capitol L.

I'm not Christian, but i know how women are supposed to be treated. And that aint it. You need someone who loves you for the way you are and respects you.

Good Luck, Sweetie. Get rid of him. You deserve better.

Answer 9

You must move on. At first it will be painful, but in time you'll be very glad you did. Your boyfriend sounds abusive and you sound fragile. Not a good coombination since the abuse will escalate and you're ability to get away will decrease. Please cut your losses now. You can and will find a person who loves you and will treat you with the respect you deserve.

Answer 10

When I read your question it was INSANE because you sound exactly like me... I am talkin EXACTLY. I checked your profile, and I am a singer, I am dark blonde haired, I live for Jesus, my eyes are green with blue, (etc etc just like you) and my ex is just like you said. Well this is hope for you, chick~ I left my ex for doin the same stuff you mentioned, and yes I still feel like I want him and yes I still feel like my heart burns for his hugs and what should have been, etc, but these men have something dangerous and seriously wrong with them. It is not normal honey, you and I both know it. We are not only good enough for them, we are too good and too kind hearted to let it keep happening! I refuse to let the devil steal my joy, God will have His way with our lives, not these harsh guys who have some sorta sickness. We can pray for them, blessings all around, but they cant have us! God can have us! In the mightier name of Jesus, no weapon formed against you shall prosper, every tongue that rises against you shall fall! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you *big squeeze*