the guy i been having sex with over the last few weeks. Asked me what was up with me and him on last friday night, he was extremely drunk so i didnt answer him now he saying that he doesnt remember anything from that night.So today when i seen him, I asked him where are we actually going to go with this, he says that he will talk to me about it later but whenever i try to talk to him in person he just smiles and finds something else to take my attention off of the question. I honestly dont think he wants to be with me. What do you think? I really like this guy and he claims to really like me. I've gave him money when he needs it and when he calls me in the middle of the night i go to him.I mean he's given me money before but i still do more for him and weve only been talking 3 weeks.. What would you think of the situation? I really need help.
2006-06-06 16:37:57 · 16 answers · asked by ktowndeedee254 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, I think you should leave him. There are so many guys out there, you're bound to find someone better than him. It seems as if he's using you, and if YOU'RE noticing that, then I'm guessing he has to go. It seems as if he thinks he can manipulate you almost, like have you come over to see him at the middle of the night, or take your mind away from the relationship whenever you ask him about it. He seems to like having you in such control because of how you said "he just smiles and..." Don't have sex with him for about a month, and see what he'll do. Again, this is all only my opinion.
2006-06-06 16:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by Prodigy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So.. you guys are having sex and spending a lot of time together, etc.. but he won't tell you that he wants to be your boyfriend? I don't know.. doesn't sound like a good situation to be in. How do you know that nothing happened, when he was drunk? especially if he does not remember anything. I agree that he sounds like the sort of guy who goes through girls quickly and he might not want to be with you. You deserve a lot better, sweetheart! find yourself somebody who wants to commit.
2006-06-06 23:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by faerycatcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is using you until he finds something better. You're giving him money and sex when he wants it. I wouldn't even waste my time talking to that loser. You need somebody better who will treat you with respect and NOT USE YOU. Dump him. Don't let anyone-not even a man- take advantage of you like that. You are a queen and you deserve to be treated like one. Kick that loser to the curb and find somebody that will treat you with respect.
2006-06-06 23:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are too available to him and he is using you as a booty call. Stop giving him money and going to see him every time he calls you. Let him come to you, play hard to get. Then you will know if he really likes you or was just using you...fingers crossed for you.....
2006-06-06 23:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Gaby A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl or boy i think you're a girl so um... i would say just to see if he's digging you. Give one of your home girls his number right and be on three way while {she's} talking and make sure he doesn't know her. and tell her to flirt with him and ask if he has a girl. If he says yea he's digging you he's just having problems, but if he says no and wants to meet up with her baby he's playing you... It really works just as long he doesn't know you're on the phone!
2006-06-06 23:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it sounds like a loser and a user, i have met so many of them but the best answer for you, move on, get rid of him. Or continue the sex but no cash and see what happens ..
2006-06-07 08:32:00 · answer #6 · answered by buttkiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like that you are just someone that he can hang out with until he finds someone else. If he doesn't talk to you then it usually means that he is not comfortable around you and talkin to you about things.
2006-06-06 23:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cisco_2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! He is using you for money and P****! Get a better view of yourself and stop letting some man use you and play games with you like that.
2006-06-06 23:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by tysha30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if you think that he really doesn't care for you then get out of the relationship,ma.cause ame if he not gon treat you right then you don't need to be him.momma there are way better men out there that are willing to be with you and treat you right.if you me i think home boy just using and scared to commit.but if he not ready give his time then what are you'll doing together?
2006-06-06 23:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by glamorousdiva92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The help you need I can't provide. First, I don't know if you're a guy or a girl....the picture is a guy, but that whining and idiot questions are very female...if you are a guy...stop being gay...if you're a girl...shut up
2006-06-06 23:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋