If you ask a man if he ment something he said during sex and he says he can show you better then he can tell you but wont give a strait yes or no does it mean he is afraid to express his feelings or does it mean he didnt mean what he said? I really need some insight.
2006-06-06 16:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by Lauren 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He said he wants me to be his woman, and that he loves me and this was after just two months of being friends with benefits he kept saying he didnt want a relationship for the whole two months but last night he said he does now while we were having sex and I think he was drinking too. But 2day I asked him if he ment it and he said I can show you better then I can tell you, is this more understandable?
2006-06-06 16:51:03 · update #1
How can any man even focus on hiding his feelings being intimate with a lovely lady as your avatar shows? Anyone who offers vague responses has to use some clever deceptive skill....and that takes pratice.
If your man can do this during sex, then he's crafty. Better let me handle this one:
Leopold, Lauren wants to know---right skippy now--if you ONE: meant what you said and TWO just how can you SHOW her this "fact" better than just telling her???
There you go Lauren....on second thought: maybe you can use what I just said and YOU say it to him point-blank. You go girl--and know Mr. Wizard is behind you. However, if Leopold gets out there bad with you, Mr. Wizard will be behind him---something he WON'T like at all.
Seriously, though: Be point blank, brave and ask him. If he goes vague like an abstract painting (and there's a LOT of wierd ones, there too), then he's playing with you....and he's best dumped.
2006-06-06 16:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are most vulnerable during and immediately following sex. (Aren't we all?) You can probably ask for anything in the world and they will promise it to you during/after sex. I don't think it necessarily means that he didn't mean what he said but, there is that potential. Sex can also be truth serum too and he could be afraid to express his feelings now.
You really need to get the answer from your man, he's the only one that can tell you what he meant.
2006-06-06 23:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a rule, never ask someone about what they said during sex especially men, when your hormones and adrenalin are going people say crazy things cause they get excited never take it to heart.
2006-06-06 23:42:05 · answer #3 · answered by mailie0880 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first one
2006-06-06 23:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by StreetPunk93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is real sens-ire and committed to you than i would say that he is afraid to show his feelings if not then he just said it to score brownie points!
2006-06-06 23:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by fate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely depends on what he said. If he meant it he would tell you a straight yes or no.
2006-06-06 23:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Amber C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did he say? most of the time guys say things after sex when they are too relaxed to put up their guard. wait and see if he says again.
2006-06-06 23:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by sizzorchic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was saying shyt to turn you on, it's not unheard of, really kinky shyt turns women on. the nastier the hotter they get, and talk to them about stuff that is taboo (like doing your sister while you watch,) that usually gets women hot. unless he made videos of his teasing , I wouldn't hold him to anything if I was you.
2006-06-06 23:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what he said I guess.If he doesn't lie to you maybe he is afraid.If he has lied to you about other things,maybe he's lying.
2006-06-06 23:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did n't get what ur asking...
2006-06-06 23:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by phill s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋