not to because i am uncircumcised and have always heard that is not what girls want. i am currently been with this present girlfriend for about a year, and im crazy about her and am holding back because of this reason. she constantly asks me if it has something to do with her why i wont have sex with her, and she is begginging to get upset about it, girl does this really matter? i really like this girl as i have known her for sometime, and im scared that she will freak out or something when she realizes im uncircumcised,, girls help!!!! is this a big deal?
2006-06-06 16:33:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a 40 year old woman and I find uncircumcised men to be the same sexually as circumcised -- one even has a little something extra to play with, so that's kind of cool. Of course, if you are young, you are worried what other people think about you more than when you get a little wisdom later in life. Bottom line, if the girl really likes you she won't care. You can either tell her you are shy about sex because you are not circumcised, but that you think she's hot and if she doesn't mind then you don't mind, or you can be a man and just tell her she's hot and you can't wait any longer and then go at it. Women respond to men who are confident (but not pushy). Also, if you are talented at going down on her, she won't care what your penis looks like!
2006-06-06 16:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by delight_1027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I know most men are not circumcised, it's only recently that men have begun to do this as a trend. I don't see what the big deal is. In the heat of the moment I am sure that will be the last thing on her mind. and if it is bothering you so much simply go and get circumcised you can do it at any age. Good luck and remember to love your body no matter what it looks like, everyone has a part of their body they don't like, including her so simply speak to her : )
2006-06-06 23:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude if you relly like her and she really likes you then she wont care! and if she does then shes not worth your time! heres what you can do! im guessing that shes never had sex before either so do it at night in the dark and just start taking her clothes off and let her take yours and then go put on a condom and she probley wont even be able to tell just be sure that you take your time at first b/c you will be kinda biggger then most guys and i know that you dont want to hurt her! and afterwards tell her if she asks and she tells you that the sex was great! goodluck!
2006-06-06 23:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by I love him!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you get in bed with a very experienced girl she won't know the difference. It's not like she will be staring at it. That is not what sex at this age is all about. Trust me you will get used to it. I mean do you really think she is going to want to stop once you get started?
2006-06-06 23:49:46 · answer #4 · answered by donf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard from many women that sex with a guy that is uncircumcised is better than sex with a guy that is. Don't be ashamed, its not that nasty. Just make sure you clean it thoroughly.
2006-06-06 23:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by killersaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me put your mind at ease and tell you: it does not matter at all :)
Sounds like you're crazy about each other :) Just talk to her and explain what's going on, she'll understand you and your concerns. Everything will be alright :)
2006-06-06 23:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uncircumcised should not be a promblem,many people are like you and great in making love, just take her easy and slow,so get off and enjoy ,Be safe
2006-06-06 23:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by union_lonely_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your body, if a girl like you she should love you no matter what ? why are you so self conscious about being uncircumcised?
2006-06-06 23:36:34 · answer #8 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she really loves you she wont care, i found out about a year ago that my man was like that but i didn't care b/c i love him, i think you should talk to her and if she turns you down then she wasn't the right one for you and she just thought she loved you. but don't let this get you down she might just love you for who you are!
2006-06-06 23:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by fate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you have to do is tell her the truth as to why you have not been having sex, that you are uncomfortable about this and i am sure she will be understanding, i think she will just be relived that its not because of her
2006-06-06 23:38:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋