i'm coupled up with my boy friend for about 2 years but i dont feel in love as much he feels.he has been a good companion for me but i'm cheating my self.maybe i'm doing this because of sympathy.he is a nice guy.i don't want to hurt his feeling.help me to help him.
2006-06-06 16:30:45 · 14 answers · asked by srehvi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste anyone's time here. Be upfront out of respect for himself and for you. Just let him know that the feelings just aren't there and it isn't him it's just the way you feel. This way you both stand a chance of meeting the right person.
2006-06-06 16:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ease into the break up.. like one day when your talking to him ask him what he thought about dating other people for a while then see what he says, then say something like "i think that if you and i are ment to be together for a long time we need some space and time away from each other". Something like that not word from word but you get the message! Hope that helped..
2006-06-06 23:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have realized your true feeling, do not make yourself confused. Telling him, that is the best way.
Sometime a short time hurt is better than forever
2006-06-06 23:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not in love with him anymore and you want to move on. Honesty now will hurt but it will be better than continuing to pretend to love him.
2006-06-06 23:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by janinenc2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you really feel. Don't let the statement 'I don't want to hurt his feelings' get in your way. Tell him strait forward, and even tell him that your not trying to hurt his feelings, and that you just want to be friends.
2006-06-06 23:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kayla M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it! You're not cheating yourself, you're cheating him. He thinks you're as into it as he is, and you're letting him think it. Stop depriving him of the opportunity to find someone who loves him as much as he loves her. By not telling him how you feel, you're making yourself miserable and it's also selfish.
2006-06-06 23:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch "how to lose a guy in 10 days"
Be rude, clingy, insecure, untrusting, wear crappy clothes, insult his intelligence and sexual performance in front of his friends, he'll run away.
:-p
haha jokes, I think it's best just to tell him honestly how exactly you feel , he's a nice guy he'll understand, you can still be friends
2006-06-06 23:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tang Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to he tell him you need a break maybe some time apart will make u realize why u fell in love in the frist place
2006-06-06 23:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by ember420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW sounds hard, but I would tell him something like, "I'm not worthy of you, you dissever better, I fall short, you shouldn't be wasting your time with me", things like that, make it seem like your not good enough, or that your not on his level.
2006-06-06 23:35:49 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_dulce_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll soon realize what an immature, self centered imp you are and relieve you of your problem.
2006-06-06 23:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Pancakes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋