my boyfirend and i have been together for over one and a half years, but i don't know if i want to be with him anymore... i love him, i just seem to be so upset lately and he is the main cause. He's very possesive, and selfish, and i find myself wanting to go out with friends and have a good time than be with him... i don't know wat to do coz we have been togetha for so long, im scared i won't know wat to do if i don't have him in my life... and i don't think im strong enuff to walk away, especially wen i know he is going to be heartbroken....? i can't walk away from him wen he is hurt... has any one else been through the same thing and can help me? coz i can't seem to do it...?
2006-06-06 16:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun i have been there and done that if your not happy and really need to leave tell him cause else wise you might do something worse like cheat, dont let his tempertantums get your pity. he is not the boss of you please dont let him be, but if your still not sure do somethig for you like a week off and see how you feel after it.
2006-06-06 16:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is bothering u then u should end it, because if he's possesive and selfish he may not get any better. It only gets worse. So u if it whats u REALLY want should break it off
2006-06-06 16:37:30 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be happy. Very possessive and selfish qualities aren't likely to go away, they actually tend to get worse. Do what you have to do. Don't be scared without a man in your life, you said yourself - you want to be with friends. So girl, be with friends. Surround yourself with unselfish people and you will be fine.
2006-06-06 16:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by girlysledgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...if he makes you cry more than he makes you smile, get away.
When you find the right guy, you will know you want to spend the rest of your life with them.
2006-06-06 16:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by jaredkbyrd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it!! Ha ha!! Nah seriously I am always going to be here if you need to talk.
2006-06-06 16:34:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe youll should not be together any longer
2006-06-09 15:06:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask you boyfriend if he could ever picture you guys being just friends.
2006-06-06 16:36:28 · answer #7 · answered by Cute eyed chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋