i have cheated on my bf but still really <3 him!!! i don't know what to do b/c i don't trust the person i cheated on him w/, which was his best friend!!
2006-06-06 16:28:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him every thing
and explain to him Y
2006-06-06 16:31:53 · answer #1 · answered by ImaGman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said that you don't trust he's bf I would tell him before the other guy gets a chance, explain what happened and why. Hopefully he'll be able to forgive u but be prepared for him to leave you because being cheated on is very difficult to forget. If he stays i hope u learned from this experience to not do it again, if u break up then that may be best because you don't want him to hold a grudge against you because he wont be able to trust you again. Piece of advice next time you fall in love with someone try not to destroy the most important thing in a relationship, TRUST and LOYALTY. good luck : )
2006-06-06 23:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what if feels like to cheat on a guy, but my best friend did, so I know a little bit about it.
Tell him face to face. It's WAY better if you tell him than if he hears it from someone eles. There's a pretty big chance that you're gonna get dumped. But it's still better if YOU tell him, it takes a brave person to tell the truth, so be that brave person.
Remember, everyone gets a second chance at life. You might not get a second chance with him, but you will find another guy.
2006-06-06 23:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on by my fiance' not once but twice. I forgave here the first time and she did it again. I hope you tell him the truth and save him the heartache of going through it again by breaking up with him. Believe me you will do it again, just let him go.
2006-06-06 23:35:33 · answer #4 · answered by nomad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh crap ahhh lets see if you don't tell him he'll find out anyway trust me they always do and its better to tell him before someone else does, but you have to realize that by telling him you risk losing him and he risks loosing his best friend. I would definitely tell him however im not sure I'd mention it was his best friend...
2006-06-06 23:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by Imogen228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are screwed you little trollup. You will get everything you deserve. His best friend? Are you stupid? It will never work out. You might as well get it over and go find another boyfriend. This time try to not be a tramp.
2006-06-06 23:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off tell him, i think it would be better if he heard it from you instead of his best friend, and yeah he is going to be mad, be just think what he is going to say to you if he finds out from someone else. tell him girl. be a woman.
2006-06-06 23:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by xosweet16ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, tell him the truth, he may or may not give you a 2nd chance.
2006-06-06 23:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by ~Lindsey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so wrong..but you need to tell him because if you dont his friend will..you dont love him anyhow or you wouldnt have done that to him..
2006-06-06 23:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Joker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mouth shut. and if you really like him dont do it again
2006-06-06 23:35:56 · answer #10 · answered by janet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋