ok i am 15 years old and i cant seem to keep a boyfriend i have been in a relationship for two months and that is the longest anybody know why i cant keep a bf? i am really a pretty girl and honest and fun, sweet please help and no rude answers please
2006-06-06 16:11:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 15 I should hope you don't keep a boyfriend for more than a few months! You need to focus on school and figuring out what you want to do with your life - college and/or the workforce will be coming sooner than you think. Boyfriends are distractions - fun ones, I'll grant you, but distractions nonetheless. Are you in sports or other extracurricular activities? Don't let the fact that you haven't kept a boyfriend for that long discourage you. Men twice their age have difficulty with commitment, so a 15 year old boy with raging hormones is usually not going to be a 1-girl guy. There are exceptions, of course, but they're not the rule. I am sure that you are even prettier, sweeter and more fun than you say, and any smart guy will be lucky to have you - when you're both a little older! I think girls generally outpace boys in terms of emotional development by at least 3 or 4 years, so how about this - focus on your schoolwork, your friends, your family, and your sports or extracurriculars....and if there is a boy in the mix here and there, that's a good thing and the short-lived time together can also be a good thing. You're too young to get yourself wrapped up in a long-term relationship. Heck, I'm 38 and have been married for 17 years, and sometimes I feel like I -still- haven't figured out the relationships. Give yourself time and space, and enjoy the experiences that you have. The right guy will come along eventually...no need to try to rush it.
2006-06-06 16:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound crass, but do you let a guy to anything more than kiss you? Unfortunately, there is more testosterone running through a 15-yr. old male than at any other time in his lifetime. He usually has a 1-track mind.
Sorry to be so rude, but something to consider.
2006-06-06 16:15:29 · answer #2 · answered by chuck_jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about that, you are still very young, and two months is a long time. At your age you should still be having fun, not going steady. That will come, when you and your boyfriends are older.
2006-06-06 16:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly he's afraid to allow you to comprehend or instruct that he likes you. Does he ignore about you infront of his acquaintances and take care of you all sweet at the same time as there is not any man or woman else round? That shows he likes you. yet you need to ask your self, do you fairly want to be with someone who treats you that way?
2016-12-06 11:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 15 I wouldn't be worried about a serious b.f. You need to date a few BOYS in a casual way.You have your WHOLE life ahead.Good Luck
2006-06-06 16:16:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're still young. maybe you can spend time with your friends. have fun and enjoy life first. love can wait as the right time comes along!
2006-06-06 16:19:51 · answer #6 · answered by savethelastdance_4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey find out who you really are your 15 and have plently of time to find a boyfreind you do not need to define yourself by if you have aboyfreind or not
2006-06-06 16:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by darkling1k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, you are young and it will happen for you. You will find a great guy when you are least expecting to.
2006-06-06 16:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably too clingy. You might try giving people a little space.
2006-06-06 16:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by 3 Card 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To find the real answer to your question, u should ask and exboyfriend of yours, why he broke up with you.
2006-06-06 16:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by XxShayxX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋