2006-06-06 15:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by lassie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why in the world would you want to do this? You should be happy for her. I know it must be hard for you to see her with someone else, but please try to see it from her point of view.
2006-06-06 15:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should let your mother live her own life and try to be happy. Don't you think that your father would want her to be happy? There is not a set amount of time to wait to date again after the death of a spouse. The best thing that you can do for your mother is just be there for her and support her in her decisions, I'm sure she would do the same for you. Now if this new man is abusive, that would be another story. Don't think that this new man will ever replace your father, your mother will always love him and hold a special place in her heart for him.
2006-06-06 15:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life and love is a funny thing be grateful that your mother has the will to love again it may be hard considering your fathers death but im quite sure he woulkd want her to be happy love and feelings can happen at the most inopportune time if you are an adult trying to break up your mother realtionship then you need alife if he is not abusing or misusing her be happy just let her know that you are there for her she is a grown woman one day youll be aparent or lose some one that you love and you will have to move own give it up to god hell work it out
2006-06-06 15:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by frances g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your mom be happy if she can i no it is hard for you to except another man in your moms life this soon after losing your dad but don't worry your dad will never be replaced in your moms heart she will always love him and she will always have you to remind her of him ,just give her some room maybe this guy is helping her get through the loss of your dad let her no you are hurting to and try to work things out between the 2 of you
2006-06-06 15:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by sclady62001p 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should break up your mom and her boyfriend just because your father only died six months ago. i am a strong believe that everything happens for a reason. i fell in love two weeks after my divorce with my best friend. you'd be surprised. you should be happy that your mom is happy!
2006-06-06 15:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear about your father. thats really sad. now as for your mom and her boyfriend. why do you want to break them up? unless your mom is just dating this guy because she feels sorry for herself and wants someone to hang on, i dont see why she shouldnt date him. unless he's mean to you and abusive. maybe hes something your mom needs right now to get over her emotional status. and if you wait long enough you might learn to like the guy.
2006-06-06 15:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by draxxus89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do ANYTHING to break them up. She has been thru enough and now she needs someone to talk to and he is willing to give that to her... She needs companionship and you can't give that to her.. She will only deal with what she is ready to deal with.. When you move on with your life who will she have???? NO-ONE.. don't make her unhappy the rest of her life. Let her live her life to the fullest now?????? Please don't interrupt something that is making her happy... let her be???
2006-06-06 16:03:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋