Actually i don't really understand your question .. but I'll answer it as if you are asking about "Why men marry 4 women in Islam and why women can't marry 4 men?" ... OK? ...
First of all ... Islam is the only religion that said "marry only one" ... and the proof from Quran is:
4:3
"And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), THEN ONLY ONE or (the captives and the slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice."
and although Muslim man is allowed to treat his slave(s) or his captive(s) as his wife ... he should not do that against their will ... an dthe proof from Quran is :
24:33
"And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His Bounty. And such of your slaves as seek a writing (of emancipation), give them such writing, if you know that they are good and trustworthy. And give them something yourselves out of the wealth of Allah which He has bestowed upon you. And force not your maids to prostitution, if they desire chastity, in order that you may make a gain in the (perishable) goods of this worldly life. But if anyone compels them (to prostitution), then after such compulsion, Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to those women, i.e. He will forgive them because they have been forced to do this evil action unwillingly)."
Now ... teh reasons why men CAN (not should) marry 4 women is:
1- sexual desire at men is stronger than women ...
2- if his wife has a desease or anything that makes him unable to treat her normally as a wife , but he wishs not to divorce her ...
3- man can make parrallel sexual relationships .. and we can still recognize the father ... while woman cannot make parallel sexual relationship because of the responsibility of the relations (taking care of each husband as a wife and all of the children as a mother .. get pregnant .. needed as a wife for each of them !!!) ... and it's going to be hard to recognize the father ...
besides it has been proven lately that women with parallel sexual relationships get the womp canser ...
4- women numbers are getting greater than men numbers due to wars and natural desastars ... so eventually there is going to be alot of women with no men if a man doesn't marry except one ...
so these women has only one way to get sexual relationships which is to be prostitutes for married men ... which ruins the already established relationships "stable marriages" and makes men do sexual relations aoutside marriage which is forbidden as a major sin...
so if men married tehse women ... it will be better for everyone ...
actually in my country we are getting near to that problem ... where girls are getting near 30 and even over 30 and didn't get married yet because women outnumbered men ...
i hope i answered your question .. with my best regards...
2006-06-13 02:01:04
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answered by mai4islam 3
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I can ALMOST make sense of this, but not quite. I think you're saying something about Islamic males marrying 4 women, and that Islamics worships PEOPLE just like catholics do, so why are catholics and islamics at war? I don't get the last part though. PLEASE explain this better so we can understand!
2006-06-06 15:58:09
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answered by married_so_leave_me_alone1999 4
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Muslim worship only one God you idiot. the creation of everything. the God who sent Abraham, Moses, Jesus and Muhammad.
for 1 man married to 4 women. this is a solution for many problems in the society. there are many women who are widows, singles, divorce. and at the end it's up to the woman to say Yes or No to a married man. and he has to be very fair with them. if he can't be fair then the Quran is ordering him to marry only One.
not every man is capable financially of marriage. and sex is forbidden outside of marriage life. many single girls want to have a family and children but no men wants to get married.
this is could be one of a solve problem to many solution in the society.
USA has the highest divorce rate, and i am sure there are reasons behind this.
2006-06-06 16:06:39
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answered by Anonymous
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no longer a solid thought genetically. interior the united kingdom the Pakistani muslim community has a lots bigger fee of genetic issues, with severe incapacity, as effect of marrying cousins. This motives a extreme fee of genetic defects regrettably. Pakistani government would desire to discourage it. It in all hazard does save funds interior the relatives, and the meant marriage companions are no longer likely to bypass against latest relatives pastimes.
2016-10-30 08:22:49
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answered by ? 4
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This has to be the most garbled and incomprehensible sentence I have ever read.
2006-06-06 15:45:54
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answered by eddygordo19 6
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Whew, I thought I was alone there for a sec.
2006-06-06 15:48:20
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answered by ThatGuy 4
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I appreciate your soulful search for answers.
Unfortunately I am not smart enough to understand your question. Please rephrase it in words people like me can understand.
Thank you.
2006-06-09 18:37:53
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answered by imacatholic2 7
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What?
Could you please take your balls out of your mouth.
2006-06-06 15:44:18
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answered by Baby #3 due 10/13/09 6
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