This summer I am going to be a counselour a couple of states away from where I live. Currently I have a boyfriend, who i've been going out with for a little more than a month. I really like him, and he really likes me, but all the fun of camp is to be with guys and stuff. I don't want a boyfriend at camp or anything, but I still want to be able to leave opportunities open. I'm afraid when I come back he will not want to be with me anymore. Any ideas on what to do?
2006-06-06 15:03:44 · 17 answers · asked by sarbear82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you don't sound like you will miss him while you are gone so do the guy a favor and end it. And if he's not waiting for you when you get back...can you really blame him? I want to see other people and want him waiting incase you don't find anyone better.
2006-06-06 15:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by optimistic_dr3am3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you wanna have some fun with guys at camp and flirt around it would be good to break up with your boyfriend. but if you really like him try talking to him about what your worried could happen at camp
2006-06-06 15:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to break this guy's heart just so you can hook up with other guys at camp? Not only that but you like him too! I wouldn't.
2006-06-06 15:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and ask him if the two of you can take some time off. If he agrees then do it, if not then break up with him if you don't love him.
2006-06-06 15:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain 2 him what u'r feelimg frist hear his thought , if u can, make a jugdement. If he trust, care and like u this much he will wait even though it will take long.
2006-06-06 15:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your BF a favor & let him go before you leave. Sounds like he deserves a mature GF.
2006-06-06 15:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by grrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck.i think that you should break up with him before leaving and tell him that you dont wont anything to happen but that you would like him to be there for you when you get back.if he would like that to.good luck...
2006-06-06 15:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how you both feel. if you think it can go further then don't break up. but if in your heart you are sure nothing more can come then you have to let go.
2006-06-06 15:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by wweatallcost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your going away. and tell him you want a vacation and you want to have fun with the camp kids.
tell him that you want to do
2006-06-06 15:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should break up with him and get together with me.
2006-06-06 15:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by flournoi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋