I have very very very self-esteem?

Question

I have very very very self-esteem and i care wat others thing of me it has takin over my life i cant do nuttin like today my teacher took pic of the class omg i felt like cryin soo bad and i always thing that someone is sayin some about me soooo wat do u do????

am sry i meant to put very low self-esteem

Answer 1

Remember, Juvenile his song Rodeo, he says, "You're all beautiful women if you're insecure." Me personally took that as a compliment because to me it means, you care what everyone thinks, so you're lookin' good all the time. Did that make you feel better?

Answer 2

I assume you want to say you have a very low self esteem. Try to look at life more positive, look at the good things that are happening to you. Concentrate on your schoolwork. Maybe others are looking down on you, show them that you can succeed. Put pride in everything that you do. Surround yourself with happy people. I wish you a good day for tomorrow. Wear something exciting and have fun.

Answer 3

-Try to stop thinking negative thoughts about yourself. If you're used to focusing on your shortcomings, start thinking about positive aspects of yourself that outweigh them. When you catch yourself being too critical, counter it by saying something positive about yourself. Each day, write down three things about yourself that make you happy.

-Aim for accomplishments rather than perfection. Some people become paralyzed by perfection. Instead of holding yourself back with thoughts like, "I won't audition for the play until I lose 10 pounds," think about what you're good at and what you enjoy, and go for it.

-View mistakes as learning opportunities. Accept that you will make mistakes because everyone does. Mistakes are part of learning. Remind yourself that a person's talents are constantly developing, and everyone excels at different things — it's what makes people interesting.

-Try new things. Experiment with different activities that will help you get in touch with your talents. Then take pride in new skills you develop.

-Recognize what you can change and what you can't. If you realize that you're unhappy with something about yourself that you can change, then start today. If it's something you can't change (like your height), then start to work toward loving yourself the way you are.

-Set goals. Think about what you'd like to accomplish, then make a plan for how to do it. Stick with your plan and keep track of your progress.

-Take pride in your opinions and ideas. Don't be afraid to voice them.

-Make a contribution. Tutor a classmate who's having trouble, help clean up your neighborhood, participate in a walk-a-thon for a good cause, or volunteer your time in some other way. Feeling like you're making a difference and that your help is valued can do wonders to improve self-esteem.

-Exercise! You'll relieve stress, and be healthier and happier.

-Have fun. Ever found yourself thinking stuff like "I'd have more friends if I were thinner"? Enjoy spending time with the people you care about and doing the things you love. Relax and have a good time — and avoid putting your life on hold.

Hope that helps ^_^

Answer 4

Like you I also cared about what people thought of me but what Ilater found out that everybody is going to have a opinion about you wether its good or bad.After I got pregnant with my son every body stated calling me fat and the more and more that I stopped giving a damn what they thought of me the more that I realized that by talking to other people that worring about there opinions was not only a waist of my time but it was added stress that is useless.Find someone who will like you for who u r because even if your the hottest person somebody will always think wrongly of you so ignore it !!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

I'm the same exact way! Maybe we can help each other? my e-mail is [e-mail]
I'm sure I'll be able to help. I met a girl today called Blondie and we're really good friends now and I gave her advice and she told me that I'm the first person that understands her and has made her self esteem higher and made her more confdent!

Answer 6

Sounds like you could use some counseling. Also, pray to God for self-esteem. Come out of yourself and begin to be of help to others in need. That will make life more worth living. Do some volunteer work in your neighborhood. I clean my neighbor's dog kennel and care for the dogs every day. That helps her while she works and it makes me feel like I'm helping someone in need. Find out what you like to do and get involved with others. That's my advice. Good Luck!.....)(

Answer 7

I think it's time to talk to a counselor at school. You shouldn't be breaking down and crying at the drop of the hat.

I hope you feel better.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

My friend, the first thing that you have todo is to believe in yourself, look yourself in the mirror and see how beatiful you are and if you think that you can not do it, talk to your social worker in the school to help you look for help. Don't let anyone to put you down, look for help, please.

Answer 10

Ignore them. You will find other people that think highly of you. Ignore the negative and cater the positive.