Have you ever thought about suicide?

Question

Like that was the only way to get rid of your problems, like when you are extremely stressed out. And you ask yourself, why am I here, why am I alive, and can I handle real life, and what to do.

Answer 1

Yes, I have. I was hospitalized for suicide ideation and was diagnosed with depression (sounds weird but I had no idea I was clinically depressed!). I started taking anti-depressants and seeing a therapist regularly. They both have helped a lot.

Suicide is one of the most selfish things you can do. You have SO many people around you who love you and care about you; your death will cause them lots of pain and heartache. I know, because I had a really good friend commit suicide a couple years ago.

I can't tell from your question whether or not this is something that you're thinking about; if you are, I would suggest that you get some professional help. Working out the sorts of issues that are causing you to think about suicide may seem overwhelming, but there are plenty of supports out there for you.

Answer 2

Many people have thought it, talked about it, even tried , and yes accomplished it. All suiced does if successful is make those that were close to the person hurt, left with questions, and miss the person that is gone.

I thought it even came close to doing it when my ex-wife decided to leave me. I can't tell you or anyone what stopped me, but sitting in a tub full of hot water and a knife I couldn't. I called a hospital that delt with these issues, it helped but but it still wasn't the answer I needed. I think I realized what I would miss not what others would miss (me) I wouldn't get to see the next big thing, what ever that was. After a month out of the hospital I was starting to feel better about things, not really feeling good about me, I still was hurting from the split from my wife, and it took almost 7 years before I was able to really put it past me, Now I'm re married and am looking forward to anything.

The answer is out there unfortunatly no one can tell you what your answer is. It's differant for everyone. If you want it you need to find it. It may be as close as looking inside yourself.

I wish you luck and I hope you find what you seek, I would start by getting help, talk to anyone who will listen. Belive me they will with out judgements. There are alot of programs that deal with this and will help you. There is no problem in the world that can't be delt with. It may not be fixable, but you can work around it and learn to accept what is uncontrollable.

Answer 3

I unquestionably have some psychological subject that when I cry my recommendations is going into overload and a few chemical compounds are produced way too a lot and others no longer sufficient- so i think truly depressed and think of roughly suicide each and every time I cry. I mean i could desire to be crying cuz I stubbed my toe truly complicated and "basically decide for the soreness to end". i'm severe. i'm fortunate that i'm continually tricky in my ideas- which includes extracting cyanide from pear seeds... so by no ability been sucessful- that's good and now on drugs.

Answer 4

I think everyone questions themselves on your statement. but its how you handle it thats important. no suicide is NOT the answer!!Like the old song goes.."you pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start all over again" It sounds like you have alot of stress in your life you need to put it too good use such as walking or any kind of exercise seems to help me. also identifing what is causing this stress and working on relieving some of it you did not say how old you were but if its work cut back some it its parents/friends pressuring you try to work together to solve the issue. also talking it out with another person who you trust and is objective can be very benificial. but let me re-emphasize suicide is not the way out!!! take care

Answer 5

First of all, yes I have in times of extreme (especially when younger) thought briefly that suicide may be an answer to my problems. That is an understandable thought when feeling low, if in passing. I am also a Medical/mental health social who used to work at a suicide prevention hot line. It is not OK when you think about it persistently or plan it. If you have gotten to the point that you can't shake your depression, funk, blues or whatever you want to call it, talk to a doctor and ask for help. People are there to help you if you ask for it.

Answer 6

Suicide does not rid any problems that is a misconception and a myth. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Fact is the problems that many of us face are self created or at least self avoidable. Example; addiction/alcoholism... a self created dilema and maybe the initial onset force for suicidal tendencies or thoughts... Get a Grip

Answer 7

yeah i have thought bout suicide. when i was younger i was raped and physically, mentally, and verbally abused (not by the same person) and those times overlapped each other those times were the hardest of my life. I ended up becoming a man hating b i t c h. I handled it the best way i could think of. i turned to my books and studies. it really hurt me later in life cuz no guy ever wanted to date me cuz i was a man hating b i t c h. And those who attempted to go out with me usually came back and told me that it was a joke therefore increasing my man hating. But i am a lot better i have found a guy who loves me for me and has really kicked my man hating habbits. I got out of it cuz i became determined. Not the way most people deal with suicide. I looked at my life and thought i'm tired of being like that so i became determined to change. and i have succeeded

Answer 8

I understand where you are coming from because i have been there myself. It takes a person who has been there and who is struggling with it themselves at the moment to really be able to answer this question. Here is how i see it. There are many ways to cope with problems positively as well as negatively. i was a cutter. i show my coping skills negatively, and for me that is what i am trying to quit doing but just cant for reasons i cant quite figure out. but, enough about me, suicide is final. if that is the route you choose you have to understand that it is final, and it is a fact that you have to be alive to feel better about yourself or whatever it may be that is bothering you.

Answer 9

Yes.. but I went for help with all my problems... and when I look back at that time in my life.. I worked thru my father molesting me.. my Brother, and others... A little girl doesn't know . and It wasn't my fault... and Now I have a new husband that loves me,two great kids, and a granddaughter, and I see all the things that I would have missed in my like I am so thankful that I got help... Life is beautiful, and I feel sad when I know people that have succeeded in suicide..

Answer 10

Who hasn't? Only the abnormal always-happy-make-you-want-to-yak people haven't. Bad things happen to teach you lessons and build your character. You just have to decide . . . are those bad things gonna make a candy *** out of ya? Are you going to let them beat you? I've been there many a time, and I've always come out of the dark tunnel with my soul still in my hands. You never get what you can't handle, and after you step out of the woods and back into your life a few times, you'll remember that for the next time . . . and the time after that. Life isn't easy, but when you think about all the good things that have happened and all the good times still waiting . . . isn't it kinda worth it to stick around? For me it has been, and I hope it always will be.