I have been single for my whole life with the exception of 1 guy and that was only for 2 days because he still loved his last gf. I am a shy girl but really sweet, i don't do anything bad, and all the adults adore me, i'm ok looking and good body.... I don't get it how can i not get a boyfriend... also i am a Sophmore and still haven't got my 1st kiss....Please help how to get a guy
2006-06-06 13:49:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, don't rush it..Just think you havn't had your heart broken yet because he found someone else he might like better..that sucks...just be yourself you are young and sophmore, junior, senior year will be the best time of your life...try not to be in such a hurry to deal with all the drama that comes with high school crushes...it will happen in its own time...you never know the one who shows interest in you may become your high school sweetheart and may last a long time...
2006-06-06 13:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by tweeterbird73 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you can go out with more guy friends and get them to know you better. it might be a solution. As going out with many guy friends, it might get them to know you better and who knows, maybe one of them have intrest in you. the other way is you express your feelings for a guy that you like. Well, though the trend seems to change very fast, there are girls expressing their feelings for the guy they like. it is not a wrong concept problem. another solution is Do not rush into the 1st kiss thing. sometimes letting the nature takes its course is a good alternative. Love is something that cannot be rushed into. Just be patient and most importantly be yourself. Do not let the thought of getting a boyfriend and a 1st kiss change your personality. What a guy love in a girl is the girl's natural character and normal self. Do not worry. You will find a suitable guy. being single for too long is not a wrong problem.
2006-06-06 13:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, you're still very young. You will meet that boyfriend one day, but in the meantime, enjoy life, try to ease out of being so shy. Sometimes people misinterpret shyness for being stuck up because they don't know. I'm not saying turn into a wild cat, but make yourself a little more approachable by smiling(if you don't already do that) speak to people that go to your school. All in all, become comfortable in your skin. People will take notice and that special guy will eventually too.
2006-06-06 14:00:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I'm in the mid 20s and I still don't have a girlfriend. Everyone thinks I'm cool and all. But maybe the right one has not come around get my drift. So quit thinking about it. Because when you wait, you'll find someone who will treat you right. And by the way I got my first kiss at 20!
2006-06-12 15:29:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are so young. I had the same problem and are going through it again. Im 28. I have been single for 5 years. And like you i consider myself to be not too bad looking. And i dont get why i cant meet anybody. In highschool i felt like i would be alone forever. Then all of a sudden boys started liking me. I dated until i met my ex who i feel madly in love with. Then we broke up and i was devastated. My point is, it will happen for you. You may even be single again, like myself. Its hard but you have to have patience. Love yourself and never forget that you are worthy of being loved.
2006-06-06 15:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by meshell1650 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a solphmore and been single your whole life? Hell most of us were married by the time we were freshmen. You sound very sweet. Don't rush it . You may have to kiss a few frogs before you find Prince Charming, he'll be there when you least expect him.
2006-06-06 13:58:46 · answer #6 · answered by MoonDoggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a freshman, and I know exactly how you feel, looking at everybody else and feeling lonely. Well, let me tell you from experience, dating in high school, is really confusing. You say you are looking for a bf, but is there any one that you like? Is there anybody that likes you? I can't talk for much longer right now, but if you want to email me, you can find me at johdoe2027@yahoo.com
2006-06-06 13:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with you. Alls it means is that you wont settle for less and that is great. Maybe trying to put your self out there and be a little more social might help. But dont worry that man of your dreams will find you when you be yourself.
2006-06-06 13:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by krissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it will happen. I am almost 33 and just met the woman of my dreams not to long ago, so sometimes it takes a while. In the mean time, enjoy life.
2006-06-06 13:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got nothing to worry about sweety. all my friends were out dating and kissing boys alot quicker than me, i thought something was wrong with me but as it turns out there was nothing wrong with me as i finally met the perfect guy. i always felt like i was missing out on something but trust me just wait toyr turn. now all my mates are single and have a bit of a name for themselves. your time will come and when it does you will be glad you waited for him.
Good luck and don't stress
2006-06-06 13:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋