2006-06-06 13:48:10 · 16 answers · asked by ford 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Walk away. Seriously. Don't waste your life because you don't wanna hurt her.
I stayed with a girl I didn't love for a year and a half after I realized I didn't care about her any more... why? Because she loved me and needed me.
It's lost time, and I'll never get it back.
2006-06-06 13:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your situation with her. Marriage? Kids? What's up? It's easier for a guy to stay with a girl if he isn't in love, but impossible for a woman to do the same. Need to give it a lot of thought. In case you don't know it, you are a very lucky man to have a woman who really loves you. That's extremely important.
2006-06-06 21:02:09 · answer #2 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, telling the girl is the most direct way but before telling the girl, question ownself if it is truly what you feel. if you really feel that you do not love the girl anymore then tell her directly. sometimes if the direct approach is too direct , you can try the round-about approach but normally it might not be the best idea too. you can tell her that you still want to be her friend even though cannot be lovers.
2006-06-06 20:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least tell her the truth! Be up front and honest about it! It will take her some time so if she bugs you just tell her that you don't love her anymore and she has to move on with her life!! When a gal loves someone it takes a while to get over it trust me I just got my heart broke and its just taking time to move on but i am not buggin the guy!!
2006-06-06 20:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell her ASAP the longer you wait the more her love will grow for you, no matter how bad you treat her. so just stop it where it stands NOW. If not it could really get to the point where she'll start stalking you and progress to worse
2006-06-06 20:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by tsclark06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt but the longer u take to tell her the worse it will be to get out of this relationship. Be honest and tell her the truth. It's obvious u have nothing in common anymore after the passion has died. My ex broke up with me and at first it hurt alot but then I appreciated his honesty.
2006-06-06 21:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Naric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way is to tell her, its going to be uncomfortable but in order to get going with your love life that the only way.
2006-06-06 20:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by BelleVie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the longer you leave it the worst its going to get!!
tell her then move on... if you ever loved her, try to repect whats going to happen in the future, and try to be open with everthing you tell her....
our feelings are more fragile then males!!
2006-06-06 21:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her.Waiting longer makes things worse
2006-06-06 20:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in a kind, meaningful way and then change your phone number if she does not get it. None of this back and forth stuff........clean break and no contact is the best way.
2006-06-06 20:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋