This is no joke. My birthday is coming up this Sunday, June 11 and for some reason I am feeling really scared of it. The closer it gets the worse I feel. Does anyone have any suggestions what might be causing the fear? I am going to be 51.
2006-06-06 13:15:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
maybe a depression, scared of getting older, but don't worry if thats it, just take care of yourself you have plenty of time and plenty more birtdays to look FORWARD TO. relax and enjoy !
2006-06-06 13:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It could be the whole "midlife crisis" thing...which I really don't believe in. The whole "crisis" exists only because aging people want to have their last "crazy nights of fun" and such...and excuse their wild behavior over getting older! What's THAT?
Other than all that - don't feel afraid of your birthday! It should be a fun day! Take off work if you can and party it up with your friends or someone close...or even better, stay home by yourself with a good book! Take time to appreciate yourself for turning another year older and doing alright!
2006-06-06 20:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by beauvoir_babe1865 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure what can be causing your fears, i mean 51 is still young....do you feel unaccomplished? what seems to be the problem? i'm sure you have family and friends who love you, and perhaps you're just reaching a milestone you're not yet sure of how to take. but my take on this is...if you've held back on a lot of things you've wanted to do in your life... now is the time to do it.
happy early birthday! 51 is the new 41 LOL, so enjoy life and be happy!!
2006-06-06 20:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just turned the big 4 0 and i cant wait till i get to your age. do something special on your birthday, like having a really expensive lunch with the ones you love. i have an aroma therapy massage on my birthday (can't wait for next year). just do something for yourself, be shelfish and spoil yourself for the day or get someone to spoil you. you'll be fine have a great day.
whats making you so afraid of this birthday. have you herd some bad stories about being 51. you are getting older but you are also getting wiser.
2006-06-06 20:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, these other people's answers made me laugh. No need to fear! Just because your 51 doesnt mean you're life's gonna be over. Cheer up and buy yourself something really special to celebrate.
Happy Birthday!
2006-06-06 20:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by slick_3501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a weird day? Maybe you feel you are getting older and closer to death. Don't worry. I felt the same way when I turned twelve.
2006-06-06 20:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just live your life as i've never had the chance to live mine. i'm a viet nam vet drafted in my prime and still stuck in the era of youth. i don't drink or smoke or do drugs now you tell me about problems
2006-06-06 20:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by chucky5050 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u'll be alright. take a deep breath think all about da good things about being 51. god bless
2006-06-06 20:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by scorpiobabe211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ill pray 4 u, ull b ok.
2006-06-06 20:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by mazzygirl83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the bible
2006-06-06 20:17:41 · answer #10 · answered by Deztini! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋