I know its none of my business but I still really like him and we don't talk or anything (its been about two years) I always see him with her and it makes me sad..Before I start talking to him as FRIENDS again I want to make sure that he is NOT in love with her so that I don't cause trouble.I wouldn't do anything unless they were no longer together.
2006-06-06 12:40:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know your feeling, you must be such a sensitive sweet girl.
If you still love him to be with him in the future, please leave him for a while. If he is the right person for you, he will come back to you. Please get relaxed and give him a time to come back to you.
During waiting for him for a while, you can open the window in your room to feel warm sunshine outside and you will see and find other beautiful things and you can also meet nice persons around you!
Life is just once and let's enjoy our life, and let's meet many persons around us in the whole world. Shall we enjoy our life to make it healthy and worthy altogether? You can do it.
Good luck!
2006-06-06 12:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by a_s_t_r_o_7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're right - it IS none of your business. And you should make sure YOU are not in love with HIM before you try becoming friends. You are still attracted to him and you can cause trouble because of that.
You're not ready to really offer friendship, so keep your distance before he ends up hating you. It sounds like your own ego can't bear the idea that he may be falling in love with his current girlfriend. I'm sorry you feel sad seeing them together, but stay away and never mind his feelings for her. They're a couple now and you two HAD your time together. Sometimes that's all fate allows you to have. It's hard to face that and let go, but you should because that's the way it is.
2006-06-06 19:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's that sound? Oh yeah, it's a planet earth reality call! WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE!! He's escaped from you and he ain't coming back. There will be a pretty good reason why he's not talked to you for two years and unless he's in a coma, it won't take an Einstein to figure it out.
2006-06-06 19:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu are right...this is NONE of your business. HE obviously has no interest in you, get that into your head. And I am sure you would not cause any troubles. What makes you think he wants to do anything???? Are you as egotistical as you sound?
2006-06-06 19:44:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear ex,
There are so many man out there who would die for you to give attention to them... much more attractive, charismatic, wealthier, intelligent, charmer, educated, passionate, fun and virile ...
You can't expect a pig to appreciate pearls and diamonds. Let the dogs run among its kind and you, a precious swan, fly into the blue sky and find a wonderful swan who would love to have you in his life and in time, if you allow it, you'll be happy your ex is an ex....
2006-06-06 19:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by winter_71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe you should just get over it....not trying to be mean....but it HAS been two years....that's a really long time to be obsessing over someone....and who cares if he loves her.....there together and that's all that matters.....you should just let them be.....if he wants you he'll come back, but don't be one of those pathetic ex's always lurking in the shadows...its no good.
2006-06-06 19:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by 1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that if you ex is in love with his GF you would notice more signs, but I wouldn't talk to my ex for a long time unless I had to .
2006-06-06 19:46:37 · answer #7 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR BEING A ***** PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES WHY ARE YOU EVEN TALKING TO HIM, JUST TO BREAK THEM UP YOU DONT WANT TO BE HIS FRIEND COME ON YOU WANT MORE THEN THAT AND WOMEN KNOW SHE KNOWS WHAT YOU ARE DOING, AND HES LOVING THE EXTRA ATTENTION. THINK ABOUT IT WHY IS HE WITH HER AND NOT YOU. MAYBE ITS CAUSE THE WAY YOU ARE BETRAYING YOURSELF NOW. WHO KNOWS IF HE LOVES HER BUT HE OBVIOUSLY LIKES HER OR HE WOULDNT BE WITH HER, DO YOU THINK AFTER 2 YEARS HE IS TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS BY BEING WITH THIS GIRL. ITS NOT ALL ABOUT YOU , I CAN ALMOST GUARANTEE IT. MOVE ON FIND YOURSELF A GUY THAT ISNT AN EX AND ISNT INVOLVED WITH SOMEONE ELSE
2006-06-06 19:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all you have a be straight up and tell him how you feel about him. then ask him how he feels about his girl and you. does he think of you, does he call her ur names sometimes by mistake because hes thinking about. you know stuff like that then if he says why you tell him cuz i still like you & watever but if u love her den jus 4get we ever had this conversation bcause i get sad wen i c u with her so imagine how im goin to feel if we just friends and you in love with her...;-)
2006-06-06 19:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you would feel uncomfortable if he loved her. You just need to tell him what is on your mind and let him know that you dont want to be to close of friends if he is in love with her, because you dont want to mess up anything.
2006-06-06 19:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋