this drug thing with her is too much to handle --how do i make her leave --and should i give her more time to prove that she can stay off that(meth) stuff??
2006-06-06 12:26:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she was offered help and i do love her but she is being very sneaky of her wereabouts and trust is getting ripped out
2006-06-06 12:34:08 · update #1
From my own personal experience, she's not going to choose drugs over you, and you become the bad guy by asking her to stop. Get out, you don't need to wait for her to leave you, you should leave her. Or, if you can't leave, your persistant nagging about not using drugs will make her leave you. Seriously, save yourself the heartache, get out now, and find someone who doesn't need drugs to have a good time, believe me, they will make you happier in the long run.
2006-06-06 12:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and is willing to stick by her through thick and thin, then tell her get some professional help. She needs to go through rehab...meth is not something you can just quit doing on your own. It won't be easy and it's going to take a lot out of you to go through this process. The one most important thing for you to know is...she has to want to do it for herself. You can't force or make her quit. It'll be a long and bumpy road...good luck!
2006-06-06 19:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be on drugs and my exhubby had stuck by me for 11 yrs so i think you should sit her down and tell her what u feel about her and that u just cant handle the drug habbit and if she wants you then you will help her find some help to quit and you will stand by her but make sure she knows that if she dont get help then you cant stay with her because you cant handle it anymore. be honest.
2006-06-06 19:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ann A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not a proffessional....
You do not know how to handle this.....
It is a full time position to bring someone back to the real world...
It is a sacrifice for you, allready she has sacrificed her own life...
If you WANT to deal with it, then only you can decide that
Her family and parents should be the ones to deal with it for now.
Just tell them and her you will be there when she is healed. No guilt trips from them, you have a life, get on with it!!!
2006-06-06 19:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that it is bothering you that she is on an illegal drug, tell her that you would be much obliged if she broke the habbit slowly though because at the moment her body needs the nicotine and what ever else is in meth.
2006-06-06 19:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if she is doing it in your home that's messed up,why would you give her more time?If someone reports her and she has it in your home you could go to jail as well, pack her things tell her she has to go, if she want then call the cops and tell them the truth about what she is doing and that you don't want to be apart of it.
2006-06-06 19:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by mslooking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kick her out. Don't let someone else bring you down and believe me people on drugs will do just that. Dont even give her time to change because the only one who will change is you
2006-06-06 19:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whether she is clean or not she will always be a junkie. This is forever... I know, I had to give up the love of my life. He is still in and out of rehab/sobriety 14 years later!!! It is sad, but you have to walk away.
2006-06-06 19:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her how you feel tell her that you care about her so much and if she dosent get help immediately your going to have to go your seperate ways if she dosent give then you have every right to leave(try getting her some help)
2006-06-06 19:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by cleanheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, try honesty.. Tell her the truth.. How can you be in a relationship with someone you can`t be honest with?
2006-06-06 19:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋