I have been submissive for most of my adult life. I have had genital torture, nipple torture, candle wax torture, spanking with paddles, hands, whips. I have been humiliated, slapped, as well as spanked by groups.
The most important thing to remember is trust. You must trust your partner BEFORE EVER letting them tie you up. Talking is very important, before, during, and after. Both should know a safe word meaning stop. And both should know stop MEANS stop.
It is a very interesting fetish, but one that should be approached
very cautiously and slowly. Be very careful and safe.
2006-06-10 16:16:12
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answer #1
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answered by slaveboy_43 2
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way to many to see done just about everything in including self bondage were you use something to yourself restrained there many ways from using an icecube but its got a downfall cuz you not shere when the ice will melt a better way is using some type of timer shech as a clock or even the darkness but anyway if you do try this just make shure you can at some point get out an more inopportunely be safe
2006-06-11 07:09:30
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answered by big_ed1977 2
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I have not but there are things you need to take into account. Only do it with someone you really trust, you have been with a while and aint annoyed them...
ie could be an axe murderer or if your annoyed them even if a couple its payback time.
That said and thats really important.
Next one is a safety word ie abort not no...
Something you won't be saying that means STOP NOW and only do it with someone who would.
Next safety nothing your partner can't get off straight way or cuts off blood supply. So watch the nots ideally use slip type nots... Better still safety fluffy handcuffs with safety catches you can flick yourself... What would happen if partner fell over and knocked themself out? had a fit or things went bad.
So no strangers, only those you trust, watch safety (this is mainly common sense), something that comes off straightaway ideally that if you really wanted to you could.
NOTHING AROUND YOUR NECK or in YOUR MOUTH...
2006-06-07 11:50:45
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answered by Joey 4
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I've had my hands and feet tied up in a star and been spanked whipped and teased for hours on end. Also been tied up and had food eaten off me, played with ice and candle wax and stuff.
all the fun of the fair.
2006-06-06 20:28:10
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answered by mike m 2
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Handcuffs and belts as restraints, legs together, and hands behind.
Sex in all orifices while tied up,
Nipple clamps are used and spanking and flogging are always done.
Vibrators are used in the orface that is not being used.
The whole experience is heavenly, and results in mutiple orgasams.
2006-06-06 16:29:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Restraints have included rope, shoelaces, pillow cases, handcuffs, belts, yarn, bandannas & scarves. oh, and a ballgag once.
What was done included ice, candle wax, tickling, teasing, massage, raspberries on the tummy, kidnapping, squirt gun fights, and being carried around over the shoulder. oh, and spankings, don't forget those.
Mild pain was the spanking, flogger and crops. Some pinching, some rugburn some ropeburn some being roughed up.
vibrators?...yeah...got to get me one a them.....
2006-06-10 17:34:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I haven't, but it seems to an interesting way to go.
I've only done that thing in chat, and found it fun, and the ladies seem to find it so too.
But with chat it's all fanasy, who knows how it would be in reality.
Might be fun to find out.
2006-06-06 12:43:48
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answered by johnb693 7
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i have played out fantasy in a sexy pirate uniform (for girls) and used vibrators a lot. i also tie my b/f up and tease him and he likes to handcuff me... its all in new experiences and fun! you soon find out what you like and dont like.
2006-06-06 13:37:56
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answered by michelle 2
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i use everything lots of spanking water ice all sorts
2006-06-06 12:33:35
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answered by lucykettering 1
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to be honest i havent actually tried
2006-06-13 11:49:49
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answered by km 5
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