They bother me soooooooo much. Sometimes I hate them soooo much. I even feel like killin them sometimes too.
2006-06-06 11:53:57 · 43 answers · asked by LuvlyGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Careful what you wish for. My brother was killed in Iraq and I would give almost anything to have him back--even just for one more hug.
Your brothers bother you because they can and you let them.
Be grateful you have them. Tomorrow they could be gone forever and you will wish you would never have had those kinds of thoughts.
2006-06-06 11:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by i_am_the_dida 5 · 11⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know EXACTLY how u feel!! I'm the oldest of 5 children...3 of them are boys!!! For some reason, my youngest two brothers are SO into wrestling that EVERYTHING they do has to do with WWE!!!
Personally, I just go into my room and close the door. That way, I'm not around them, and if they come into my room, and they still bother me after I told them to get out, I get up and chase them thru the house...hey, if they won't listen and I'm not botherin' them, then I have a right to BEAT them!!! lol
If you can't go into another room for privacy, then I suggest maybe goin' outside, maybe talk to one of your friends while you're out there...or try to go to a friends house for a little bit.
Watever u do, if u succeed in ANY other way...let me know, girl!!! I need all the help I can get too!!
2006-06-06 11:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a pretty strong emotion to have for your blood relatives. Just find a way to not let it show when they are bothering you, and I know it is hard, but eventually, when they see that they are not getting a reaction out of you, then they will leave you alone. Otherwise it would be pointless and a waste of time for them to bother you. Try it for a couple of weeks, and see how it works. In the meantime, God bless you and your family...Take care.
2006-06-06 11:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by candy0813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and you know its natural, fights are a normal part in siblings as they are the one who are most close to you. anyways the nest time your brothers irritate you the best thing u can do is ignore them, trust me when they are trying to bother you and still they dont get any response from your side then they might try more harder once but after few attempts they will be normal and whenever they say something or ask about ur behaviour be very clear and express urself in clear words.
2006-06-06 11:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Riya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im afraid theres not a lot you can do about it. ive been there, i know how much it sucks. you just need to learn to be patient and to compromise with them.
you guys will probably grow out of it. my brother and i were forbidden to be in the same room as each other when we were little (no kidding, we werent allowed to speak to each other because we hated each other so much) and now we're best friends.
i think the best thing to do is to ignore them for the time being, and let them grow up. i know it doesnt sound like its possible, but short of killing them (j/k) theres not much you can do
2006-06-06 11:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by MRose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your profile is little princess? Princess' don't kill anything. Do you think that your brother's think you're a pest too? Oh, I think so.
You know, my older sister died when I was 24. I couldn't stand my sister when we were growing up. I sometimes wanted to beat her with the broom she road on. But, when she died, I've missed her soooo much.
It will take a long time until they grow up. They will find that they love you to death. You're going to enjoy them later in life.
2006-06-06 12:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's their way of showing affection. Guys aren't going to go up to you and be like "oh I love you so much sister!!" Nah, they're gonna bother you and pay attention to you that way.
It just sounds like they're showing their love for you just a bit too much, heh. I do the same thing to my mom all the time.
And for the woman who said to get counseling....that is absolutely retarded. You don't need to see a specialist for every little problem that you don't know something about.
2006-06-06 11:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from the boys point of view... I knew exactly how to upset my big sister and always found new ways to rub her the wrong way. Same goes for my older brothers. I'm surprised we lived through our childhood. Now we are best friends and very close.
They more you try to avoid it, the more ways they'll try to get to you. It's part of being siblings, I think.
2006-06-06 12:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Carlton73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counceling. You need to learn how to handle yourself, not them. Remember this always," you can not change anyone but yourself". It is how you react to them, not how they treat you that is the issue here.
Besides, family is everything. I want you to imagine having the worse fight in the world with them, then imagine them dead. I mean really imagine it, the rest of your life without them. Sad and sick isn't it?
Go hug your brothers.
2006-06-06 11:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by mrscmmckim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All brothers are annoying at time...I have 3 of them. But then you all grow up and become older and realize they really aren't that bad.
2006-06-06 11:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋