I don't think of myself as someone who is "fun" to be around.
Have you or someone you know learned to be a "fun person"?
Is it a learnable trait? or are people just born with it?
2006-06-06 11:53:03 · 8 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
great question... but simple answer... fun isnt something that you learn, to have fun is embedded in our genetics, from the day you were born you spent time finding ways to amuse yourself... the problem is when you integrate with society you lose touch with yourself and forget about what makes you happy. You can always be a fun person to be around once you can find a group of people to relate with, and once that happens just be urself and let loose, you can amuse as many people as you want, you can even play around and act as someone else and make people laugh till they p!ss they pants haha.. dont stress, its just learning urself, u will be fine... times these days, people appreciate others for who they are, so dont be afraid to let urself out
2006-06-06 11:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by Zayin The Khaotic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you can learn to be fun, if you learn to let go and let loose once in awhile, try new things like, hanging out in different places with different people, when you hang around totally different people you've never met before you can act any way you want, they dont know you so you can change your personality and start fresh as a more outgoing and fun person...lifes to short to NOT have fun....so get out there and shake it up babe!!!
2006-06-06 19:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can learn tobe fun.
Read a book on body language, take some acting classes just for fun and it helps you approach people better.
2006-06-06 18:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant learn how 2 b fun. i thnk dat evry1 is fun but with different ppl. evry1 says i hav a big personality but i jus dont show it in front of ppl cuz im sorta shy. u jus gotta let lose n b comfortable n ur fun side will come out sumhow! lol
2006-06-06 18:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by mimorcy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try teasing people...seriously. Think of the way you talk to your friends vs. the way you talk to strangers. If you come off as shy, you aren't going to be perceived as fun. However, if you're a bit more playful with strangers, they'll think you're relaxed, fun, and likeable. It's a confidence thing, as it always is.
2006-06-06 18:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider myself a particularly "fun" person either. I don't think you're born with it (at least not in my case), but life events can influence it. I believe (or rather, hope) one can change it, with much effort and patience.
2006-06-06 18:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya just be urself work on ur self esteem when u learn to love urself others will love u too
2006-06-06 19:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, just start going out to clubs, hang out with different people and just interact.
2006-06-06 18:55:51 · answer #8 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋