In the secular world and the christian world, couples married or unmarried enjoy each other's company through the bond of love. No duh. Non christian couples often enjoy there sex life before and after. And i'm sure married christian couples enjoy them afterward. But from what i have picked up from relationships from even some of the least devout Christian couples is that all christian couples do is one on one sex. I mean, are there any Christian women who willingly perform oral, or men that will ask of it. Or mutual mast**** type things. This question is real. Answer if you can, Christians.
2006-06-06 11:49:54 · 18 answers · asked by donttrustsheep 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am a Christian and my husband and I enjoy doing whatever we can to please each other, oral included. God intended for that stuff to be fun and exciting within the boundries of marriage so why not indulge? It's funny how people think Christians are prudes! So not true! Now we don't watch porns or anything stupid like that. We get our jollies from the joy of each other's company. Just the way God intended!
2006-06-06 11:56:55 · answer #1 · answered by sandhsand 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
From my understanding (which I will admit is limited) there is not much that is frowned upon as long as it is done within the marriage - from a biblical standpoint.
I personally can't imagine a guy - Christian or not - who wouldn't at least TRY to get his girl to go down on him. Whether or not she does it probably doesn't really have anything to do with her religious background either :-) just personal preference.
I think there are just a lot of people who are afraid to admit they're a little freaky in the bedroom (or kitchen, or living room, or wherever!) and sometimes putting it off on something else, like religion, can be an easy out. "Oh no, I could never do that, God frowns on it." Bet you won't get asked that question or any other like it again!
2006-06-06 18:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by rjguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Christian. This does happen. I am ashamed of it, but I'm not.
We are saved. we are not perfect. True Christians get a little better and better every day, but we won't be perfect till we are dead.
But that's the thing about us. Christ came so that we may be forgiven. we broke the rules and we shouldn't have. It was an awful thing to do, but those who did it are forgiven if they are truly Christian.
so it does happen. we preach ageist it and we try to stop it, but it does happen. We are only mortals, too.\
Edit: and DON'T let anyone tell you that Christians have sex only to make babies. the Bible does not say that and it let's us do what we want if it's two people and doesn't break another command like not killing.
So we can do what we want if we are married.
2006-06-06 18:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by bradley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Christian couple I do not always feel it is appropriate to answer such a question, but I do believe you are asking very honestly do we have "normal" sexual desires and relationships and satisfy one another as what we would asume the rest of the world would consider lusty and heated in passion - we have found much joy in one another and we thank God for the fiery passion that He blesses us in our union with. This is why we teach our son the importance of saving his virtue to be learned about, experimented with and enjoyed only with his wife. That has been the fun of our marriage, learning the enjoyment and pleasures of one anothers physical desires. We are Christians, but we are humans as well and these are the pleasures that God has granted us as a couple. I hope this has answered your question without me being graphically offensive as the graphics are between my husband and I and we have found actions that we believe God approves and some he doesn't.
2006-06-06 18:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by dph_40 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe good Christian couples enjoy sex because they have a deeper bond and they would not do that freakish swapping stuff. They know that sex is meant to be between one man and one woman who are married and in love.
2006-06-06 18:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by brandijolove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some forms of religion frown on any form of 'pleasure', and think life is a serious business, to be spent in prayer, good deeds, and so on. In these religions (its not only Christianity), sex is just for making babies, so good religious folk are not supposed to enjoy themselves doing other stuff.
2006-06-06 18:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by multidisciplinarian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a disgusting question. Do you realise I will now have nightmares about that vision of christians coupling in carnal acts that this question has raised in my head!
You should be ashamed for mentioning such perverted and lewd acts!
2006-06-06 19:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me a good sex life is important to any marriage, Christian or otherwise.
2006-06-06 18:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anton Mathew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever is between a man and his wife, as long as no one is getting hurt ( we are assuming that both are practicing Christians)
and both are in agreement, is ok by God, I would think. And that would include whatever both are comfortable with.
2006-06-06 20:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by themom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God made this for our pleasure.
God is perfect.
sex will be perfect when you have it with you spouse for the first time and for the rest of the both of your lives.
2006-06-06 18:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋