2006-06-06 11:41:54 · 29 answers · asked by Maryann A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOu probably shoulda thought of that before you got married
2006-06-06 11:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by asssholejohn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always be open to each other. Open and honest Communication is the key. Always remember the day why you fall in love with him and in the times you have problems, go back to those days why you feels so happy and works on your problems, simply don't give up. Give, give and give. It's not easy all the time but with faith and trust not only to him, to yourself but to God as well, I'm sure you'll both be celebrating a lifetime of happiness, harmonious marriage. Never let money or material things be the central part of marriage. Always set quality time for each other even though you have children already. If you both work, let the weekends devotes to your family.
Best of wishes....we both have the same dream and I'm grateful to the Lord for gifting the husband that loves me as deeply I love him.
2006-06-06 18:49:04 · answer #2 · answered by simply_sandy929 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you that you are sure because your heart tells you that you will be. However, forever anymore isn't a long time. You can't guarantee that you will have someone forever. I thought I was going to be married forever, but turns out his plans changed. You can't be sure. All you can do is pray about it and hope that you and your husband will remain together forever.
2006-06-06 18:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by alwyzn2somthn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not be sure that your husband will be your partner forever. That's why it is important that you work on you and do the things you want to do. This is your life too and make the best of it!! I love this poem
"The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift of life is yours, it is an amazing journey and you alone are responsible for the quality of it."
2006-06-06 18:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by sasha25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. You don't know what tomorrow will bring. The best thing to be sure of is.
Are you friends as well as lovers?
Do you speak respectfully to each other?
Do you share a partnership in everything you do?
Do you listen to each other?
If you answered no to some of these questions, I would worry.
If the answer is yes, then you have a better shot than a lot of people.
There are no guarantees. If you have a good partner, don't worry so much.
2006-06-06 18:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by pricetravel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your man is like. I'd recommend being true to him first and foremost. I'd also say that you should continuously show him what he means to you. Do things you know he likes and give him what he wants. Don't play games that dating couples play. Those games are over. If you start toying with his emotions, you'll be on the curb much quicker than you may expect. Be there for him and with him during hard times. Nothing is worse than a "fair weather friend" for a partner. Don't press him for his feelings and thoughts. If he wants to share, he will. If he doesn't and you persist, he will become withdrawn. Treat him like he's your joy in life, but don't put him on a pedestal.
2006-06-06 18:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there are no guarantees in life. All you can do is make sure you are a good and loyal partner to your husband and hope that he is the same to you. If he ever isn't, then deal with it accordingly. The only things one can count on in this day in age is 'death and taxes'...sad but true : )
2006-06-06 18:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by rockout555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really. You can do your part by being the best person you can be, but it is up to him to be the best partner he can be. It takes alot to make a marraige work. If your husband is as committed as you are, you should have no worries. Good luck. I hope you stay together 1000 years.
2006-06-06 18:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Ray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in life is a gamble but if you both want the same thing, have the same beliefs and values and if you both "grow together" then there is the possiblity that you will be together forever.
But I don't think there's anything you can do per se. Let fate take it's course.
2006-06-06 18:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind. Put him first in all things and he should do the same for you, this way the mutual respect is a binding factor in your love.
Communication. Never go to bed angry. Always share your thoughts since he should be your best friend.
Loyalty. Never stand against him in public unless you know in your hearts heart that he is wrong. If in fact he makes a habit of being wrong, get a different husband!
2006-06-06 18:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by mrscmmckim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, you just have to live in the moment, and have faith that the relationship go on. And take each problem one at a time, instead of creating other problems while fixing one. And remember that arguments are normal and sometimes necessary in a relationship
2006-06-06 18:47:10 · answer #11 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋