Why is my friend so horrible to me?

Question

she makes me feel like im nothing!
and she thinks that being a teenager means sitting there acting all bored flipping ur hair everywhereand stuff, and we never have any fun!!!
im really confused!

Answer 1

Sometimes, when we are lonely, we make ourselves believe that someone is a friend when, in fact, they are not.
A friend should respect you and like you for yourself, not be afraid to be seen with you, and want to share your joy AND your sadness.

Answer 2

If u dont have any fun then why be with a person who puts you down every chance they get it`s wrong and hurts if you take it the wrong way.life is too short to be boring and flip your hair.find someone else nice to hang around.heck I`d hang around with you (lol) just dont leave your self in a compromising position when you can get out.

Answer 3

Do u have a bf that she used to like? she may be jealous that u stole the guy she liked and u wouldnt of known because she probably didnt tell anyone she liked him or you could of won a prize or somethin that she wanted to win or entered a comp and u won or she might want some attention from u to ask her on a shopping day because she may be shy and doesnt want to ask you or her parents may be fighting and she is upset about it just talk to her if u r her real friend she will tell u!

Answer 4

she's npt really your friend if she tears you down she's prolly jealous because you're prolly a lot prettier thatn she is. being a teenager shouldn't mean sitting around bored all the time this is the time when you should be having the most fun...find another friend who like to do things that you like and that doesn't bring you down...good luck!!

Answer 5

Then, she's not really a friend. Friends are supposed to be part of your support system, and make u feel good. She probaly thinks she's to mature to hang out with u when in reality she's not she is trying to act older then her age. Maybe u could talk to her about it!!

Answer 6

Oh I know how you feel. My friends do that do, they try to put me down when I am doing nothing, and I know that I am at their level of maturity, of else even more so. I think it is just the age, things get more complicated. I am 15. And just tell her you don't like being put down,. its better than keeping it bottled in

Answer 7

That person is not your friend if she treats you so mean. Stop being her friend you can find another one better. You have to find a friend who is friendly and fun. Tell her your form of viewing things if she doesn't changes stop being her friend. Good Luck finding a new one!!!

Answer 8

If she has such a globally negative view of things, it is probably a reflection of how she views herself and her environment- in other words, she is attempting to make you feel as crappy as she does. I say risk being a geek and have fun- you're only young once. Find friends who are upbeat and positive and share your viewpoint.

Answer 9

You need a new friend. Don't put up with her crap. Get out there and have fun. life's too short for you to mope around the house because your friend is a miserable sod.

Answer 10

There always has to be a alpha in a group of girls, so if you you want to be her lower dominant then be so. Myself I would rather be alone then to be with someone who thinks she's better then every one. Trust me she is only being trying to hide her own faults. You are someone, be true to yourself. Have fun with or with out her. Its her choice.