Want to know people opininos about this?

Question

I'm 17, and met my boyfriend whos 20 on the computer. We weren't lookin for a relationship, but we just became friends, because my best friend lives near him so figured she would see him or watever and i would when i visited so we became best friends, and then turned into boyfriend and girlfriend even though we live bout 4 states from each other. We've been going out for 6 months and we plan on gettting married in two years to five. We are pretty confident bout everything, I'll still go to college and hes workin on a music career. So we believe it will work. but i just wanted to know peoples opininon on this.

to clarify for ya'll, we've plenty of times before. and we are planning to get married in bout 2 years because i'll be 18 and the other year to plan it duh. if i was 18 we could married right now. cuz we cool and it looks like thats the best thing to do, because hes ready to settle and i'm ready to settle to.

*we've met before (sorry bout that)

Answer 1

Go for it. My husband and I continued a long distance romance on for about two years due to work commitments. We've been married over five years and we're expecting our first child in a few weeks.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I can't knock marrying a guy you meet off the internet...thats how I met my husband, but we dated for over 3 years before marrying, and saw each other every month. At 17, I thought I wanted to get married too, but thank God it didn't work out.....just be careful....you're going to get into your 20's and wonder what else is out there..guaranteed. I don't know anyone that hasn't gone through that stage. If it's meant to be, it will be, and you'll still be together 5 years from now even if you're not married. Just remember, marriage is a LIFELONG commitment, not something that should be taken lightly.

Answer 3

I think you are doomed to failure. For one, both of you are way too immature to be thinking about marriage. Also, every single person that I've ever seen planning to "get married in two to five years" or some insane amount of time like that never make it to the wedding. They always break up. Also, how do you know you'll work in a marriage? Living apart 4 states away is completely different than living near each other and spending time together, or living together. I think you need to grow up and you'll see the error of what you are thinking.

Answer 4

Hmm. As long as you realize the difficulty of dealing with the distance you two live apart, it shouldn't be much of a problem. It will also be hard to wait that long. Think very carefully about this before making a final decision, because this will have a tremendous impact on the rest of your life.

Answer 5

I think even if he's a wonderful guy, you should not really be
talking about marrying him even if its a few years from now. Also
it sounds like the two of you haven't even met face to face.

Answer 6

It may sound good so far. But, long distance has to become short distance in a relationship if you want it to be happy and last. Truthfully, you don't know somebody until your are with them everyday. I mean (WITH THEM) physically, in their presence every day.

Answer 7

i just want you to know it's not the age that counts but weather you love one another

Answer 8

good luck. has he even gotten you a ring yet to prove his love for you is real???

Answer 9

if you think you can make it work then go for it...but be prepared for if and when it falls apart