2006-06-06 11:05:53 · 33 answers · asked by Dorothy R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him you're sorry ... and see if he still wants you !
2006-06-06 11:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to tell you that there is nothing you can do. It's up to him, if you are really sorry and you really love him make sure you do everything to show him that. But I'll tell you this, if you had sex with another man then that is going to be something that he might not forgive, if you just kissed a guy then he might be able to get past it. But if it was something that went on for a while and was not just a one time thing then maybe you should get some help. Cheating is not good. Also, if you still talk to the person you cheated on him with, DONT!!!!! Cuz if the person is still in your life then he will think it can happen again. Goodluck!
2006-06-06 11:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by dohm84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the reasons you cheated in the first place. Then if you decide that you still want to be with your boyfriend, talk to him about it...about why it happened and how you feel now. The worst he can say is "no way" in which case you'll be no worse off than now except that you'll have a clear conscience. Good luck!
2006-06-06 11:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by hkfilmfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to him and give him room to be angry, sad, and hurt. Let him know that you're not going to put him into the awful position of having to break up with you. Then tell him you want to give him space and time to decide if he can heal from this and start building trust all over again with you. Tell him you want him to take a week or two away from you, without calling or coming over, to let him decide on his own if he still wants to be with you. Tell him you'll meet him at a certain time and place when the week or two is over. Make sure that you get there on time and prepared for whatever answer he might have for you.
This will give him room to breathe and time to think. Not only that, but being away from you will help him experience how much he'll miss you (or not miss you) if he decides to break up. If he wants to break up with you afterwards, accept it and let him go. If he wants to start building trust with you again, then you have a long road ahead of both of you and you will need to be really sensitive to his needs and fears now. Taking this time apart will also give you a chance to think things over (like what might have led to your cheating) and to forgive yourself. He needs a break from the stress of the situation to think and you need a break from the guilt too.
Trust me, it will be really good for both of you and might save this relationship.
2006-06-06 11:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, consider yourself a cheating bi*ch and apologize to him, then don't give him any guilt when he breaks up with you. If he doesn't break up with you, he is kind of an idiot. You don't date someone for two years and then cheat on them, it's a stupid, rediculous thing to do, you deserve everything he does to get back at you, nothing can fix that kind of let down and heart breaking, you completely betrayed him.
2006-06-06 11:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you cheated on him, you obviously didn't care that much to begin with...so why should you care about what you should do??? Find someone else, possibly the guy you were cheating with and let your boyfriend of two years move on with his life and find someone else who will be a better partner for him!
2006-06-06 11:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a piece of crap if you are unhappy with someone then breakup don't stay with him just cause your fling is just that trying to get you into bed oh I'm sorry you already did that. Some people just don't get it.
I am disgusted.....I am gonna go and ask a different question to try to get to the bottom of this
2006-06-06 11:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u probably did it for a reason.RIGHT? if you did u should stick with ur reason if u believe its a good one, and tell him ur reason. If its not a good reason u should go to him and tell him ur reason and tell him ur sorry u should nuv done that and u would like to get back together. If he sais he doesn't want to get back together then just walk away and forget about him hes missing out.
2006-06-06 11:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Sydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoudn't have cheated on him. I think you should have told him a longggg time ago.
Tell him your very sorry and that you would do anything in the world to be friends with him.
2006-06-06 11:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You chose to cheat for a reason.......it was probably because you are unhappy in your current situation. Time to take inventory on the relationship.
2006-06-06 11:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by agentn2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should have found out by YOU, you should of told him..
i've been in a similar situation...with boyfriend almost two years when YES (perfect lil me) cheated...
i was the one who told him...he was crushed and i truly felt bad...miserable to be exact...but i couldn'd undo what i did...begged forgiveness and thought i had received it...less than 3mos later we were married (engadged few days after affair)...it was then that i realized he never really forgave me and was arguementative with me alot over the affair...he talked me into a threesome with another woman so he could feel better about US...i agreed (i didn't feel i really had a choice) and that threesome damn near destroyed ME...he would surf on line (over 6 months worth) to find that perfect one for the threesome on sex sites...it tore me up...reading bios and looking for a gal for him/us
...we did it...it sucked and hurt...
we've been married for almost 5 years now...
do i have regrets....YES
i cheated for a reason...i wanted to be with someone who made me feel good about myself...
and then i married the one who made me feel awful about myself...
if i were you i would END the relationship NOW...for YOU and for HIM...
2006-06-13 06:07:11 · answer #11 · answered by rainbowz001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋