Please Help!?

Question

It's sorta long but please help me out. I really liked this guy only because I could see that he liked me. So I tried to get to know him better but he would never come around if I asked him too. He wound up not coming around anymore. So I just got over him. I thought he didn't like me so I didn't bother him again. Now that I've stopped talking to him he's saying hi to me more and smiling at me whenever I'm around. I was walking down the street and he came up behind me and started talking a lot, grabbed my hand, walked me up to my door and gave me a hug when I left. He's my neighbor. Any time I asked him to come over before he'd say he would but he would always blow me off. Now he's acting like this? What gives?

Answer 1

maybe he is confused about your felings for him... make sure you tell him how you feel and would like to know more about him also make sure he isn't married.

Answer 2

Sounds like he missed the attention that you would give him. I don't know if he is really interested in a relationship with you so much as he wants your attention at this point. It could just be a ego thing on his part where he feels like he needs to get back your attention so that he can feel good about himself regardless of if he really likes you or not. Regardless, the question here should be directed at him next time he approaches you. Just say "What gives? You didn't pay attention to me before and now this?". Don't let him toy with you, take control of the situation and decide what you want based upon his answer.

Answer 3

That is a strange behaviour. Maybe he felt threatened when you pursued him, and when you stopped, he realized that he missed you.
So now he's working to get you back. Sometimes as the old saying goes "We don't miss the water, until the well runs dry"
Maybe by playing a little hard to get, he wanted you more.
It seems you have what you wanted. Or do you still want him?

Answer 4

start talking to him about finding urself a gr8 bf. just ask for his advice and help. thn after some time start pointing towards other guys and say "wow that guy looks just perfect for me!!"

if he really likes u...his jealousy will take the better of him and he will want to woo u before someone else.

if that doesnt work just giv it up. dont waste ur time and seriously find someone better.

Answer 5

well, being a guy there are several reasons why he might be blowing you off. the first is that if your really beutiful you might intimedate him and he feels sort of out of place. the second is that he might feel less of a man because he wants to try to make the first move. pretty difficult question to answer. would like more info if you could email it to me!

Answer 6

Maybe he likes you too much and he is shy about comming over because he thinks he'll mess it up. Talk to him openly about it, he is the only one that holds the true answer.

Answer 7

he is not really interested in you he might have been but only for one thing and when he saw he wasnt going to get sex out of you he pulled away but when you started to show intrest he thought maby you would be interested in it after all i wouldnt waste my time he just wants to use you,move on and find the person your really meant to be with

Answer 8

Ughh! Who knows. Men are so damn hard to understand sometimes. He's probably playing games and needs his ego stroked once in a while.

Answer 9

think he might felt he is loosing u .. and he is working hard now to get u back
TrY to act u r hard to get
and u do put the rules
and if u dont like him .. just ignore

Answer 10

I f you like this guy keep playing hard to get, evidently he thinks he should have to work for your attention, sounds backward but whatever works.

Answer 11

prolly had to do some hard thinking and came around or maybe had to break off with another woman.