I need to shed my nervousness, sustain an erection, and then quit prematurely ejaculating. I don't want to use Viagra or other drugs, but when I'm nervous, it's difficult for me to keep it up. I've tried just practicing, but it's difficult to keep a woman to practice on when my performance is so lousy. What's the best way for me to stay erect, and then not shoot my load as soon as my penis grazes against a vagina?
2006-06-06 11:03:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One thing my guy tried was right when he felt he was going to ejaculate, he would tell me to move to a different activity or position. That way, it gave him a few seconds to relax, and then he would have to take more time to get it to be erect again. Also, you don't necessarily need a girl to help practice; that's one advantage of masturbation. There are also alot of books on this that most regular book stores carry (sex, masturbation, erections/orgasms, etc). Or look online for sites about it as well. Plus, if that's the only reason women are with you is for sex, then forget them. You sound mature, and you don't need people like that who are only going to use you. Well, I hope that helped.
2006-06-06 11:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 14:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eating lots of leafy greens, whole grains, oysters, watermelon, and blueberries (most any fruit will work, really) will help you give your body all that it needs to improve the quality of your erections, while cutting out processed foods, cigarettes and alcohol will provide further benefits. Read here https://tr.im/kdb8R
Add in a healthy dose of exercise at least three times per week, and you’re well on your way to better sexual health!
2016-02-16 07:25:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try desensitizing condoms? it's got a topical desensitizer (lidocane I think) on the inside- just make sure you put it on the right way!
I also heard that masturbation helps an erection last longer- like- lots of it! Jerk it 10 times a day!
2006-06-06 11:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in the mind.
Think of something else, think your a hunk in a porno or something that would get you acting confident, cos if you act it enough, you'll feel it.
And when it comes to being over excited, think of something completely unrelated to sex.
It could also be your age, guys dont last long when they're young if they do get past the vagina lol
It'll come, dont worry too much.
2006-06-06 11:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try doing keeguls (sp) thats when u tighten your taint (areah inbetween your a'hole n sack) while your at work or all day it will help you hold your load .. another thing that always helps is when u pop one .. tie a womens hair tie around yourself it will keep the blood in the wang .. and it will maintain a solid swollen erection and your girl will love it aswell.
2006-06-06 11:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by rekn_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are comfortable with someone all of those problems will stop. But, you need to be honest and that will probably make you more comfortable. Also, try other things like oral and see how you react in those situations.
2006-06-06 11:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by evasive_eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duck tape
2006-06-08 20:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by � Fuzzy Dice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
acupuncture
2006-06-06 11:18:53 · answer #9 · answered by raw 123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah there are....or you are just probably depressive or you have premature ejaculation!!
2016-03-15 01:20:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋