i don't get along with my mom's mom she's just a horrible person, in which i mean she didn't raise anyof her kids, doesn't have the martenel insnict, but my daughters second birthday is in a week adn my mom is hurt that i'm not inviting her to the party, i didn't invit her last year eitther b/c she has done nothing but hurt the people that i love and care about most especially my mom's step mom, who i'm closer with then anybody, she preety much raised me b/c my mom worked all the time she loves my daughter more than life it's self, would you give in and invite the she-devil or not
2006-06-06 11:03:19 · 10 answers · asked by trblmmmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's your choice who you invite to your party, and it sounds like you have good reasons to leave her off the guest list. Explain to your mother why you are choosing not to invite her, and say that you feel it would spoil your daughter's special day.
2006-06-06 11:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by helly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even invite her to the party at all. This is your daughter's special day and she deserves to have a wonderful birthday party with the people that she loves and has a positive influence in her life. Explain to your mom why you don't want to invite her. Don't be afraid to tell the truth. It is sad that your mom wasn't really there for you, but you don't want your daughter to go through what you've gone through. In the meantime, your mom needs to get her act together and work on herself if she wants to come to your daughter's birthday party.
2006-06-06 19:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is about your daughter and not your grandmother. I doubt your daughter would have much fun with the tension of having her there. I would tell you mom that you are making this a small gathering and your daughter is closer to her. You would rather have the people there that are most important in her life to celebrate!!
2006-06-06 18:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by daddysnurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it means alot to your mom invite her but let her know that if she is rude to anyone or does anything that you don't like she will be asked to leave. I hate my mom's mom too. She is an evil old woman that always said me and my brothers are nothing and would always be nothing but I talk to her and invite her to things to make my mom happy.
2006-06-06 18:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!
Your kids deserve to have a birthday party with only people there who love them.
Let your mother know that you love her, but this day is about your daughter, not your mother. If your mother can't handle this concept, then perhaps your mother should skip the party, too.
2006-06-06 18:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not invite her I know when a family member does something it is like how can you do that if we are family, so I say don't invite her and don't feel guilty or bad about it
2006-06-06 20:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by ~Ms Eli~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would invite them both just to see how it goes maybe theres room in people for change. Just try to be positive and based on what happens then you'll know what to do in the future.
2006-06-06 18:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to dont partys for the kids are stressful enough the chaos that would ensue from a family debate would not help and may mess up your little ones party
2006-06-13 17:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by little bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was me then no...its your kids bday and you are the one who decides all thats happends in your kids life . if you dont feel comfortable then dont invite her.. it suck that your mom will be hurt by it but maybe she should look at it from your point of view
2006-06-06 18:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jesika G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't invite her.( If you don't want to have a rotten time.)
2006-06-07 03:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋