how do you turn around a sexually inactive wife?

Question

wife not too horny, intrested in sex once/month. Preffer sleeping over sex, always tired ! help me please.. wife is 28

Answer 1

just dont touch her. stop making any advances.... let her notice that u've lost interest. compliment every woman u see as totally HOT!
thn she'll begin to think that she might lose u to someone else...

play hard to get...be unattainable...

EVERYONE WANTS WAT IS UNATTAINABLE!!

Answer 2

Sexually Inactive

Answer 3

She might have fatigue or a sleep disorder, I would go to a doctor to see if that's the case. You might also try taking over some of the stuff she does, so she's not so tired. If she usually puts the kids to sleep/does the dishes/walks the dog/washes the laundry/cooks dinner, etc, then try doing some of that for her so that she's not exhausted at the end of the day. A lot of stay at home mom's can get really run down (if she is one).

Also, try approaching her earlier in the day, or when you can tell she's feeling energetic. Do something romantic or new to interest her if you can.

Answer 4

Get her to be a little more physically active. She might just not be getting enough exercise outdoors. If you haven't already, start a walking or hiking program (spring and summer are great times to start).

Suggest camping, as well.

I know--this all has nothing to do with sex. But the lack of sex is a symptom, not the real problem.

Finally, talk to her about it, in a non-judgmental and really interested way. Tell her you want her to feel more comfortable, and what does she think might help.

Answer 5

its not about you do you have kids? thats the biggest thing that makes us tired or if she is working then i weould say there shouldnt be much of an excuse soemtimes it happens alot with women because of pms and other perosnal things women go through,you can just start with small things like running her a bath of an evening and giving her a massage,start with passionate kisses and treat her to nice things and outings just the two of you,also doing the dishes for her would make her happy as she wouldnt have to do them start taking away some of the jobs she would normally do arouns the house and sshe will soon appreciate it,however on the other hand there are wives who are dating other men behind there husbunds back and this can mean sex once a month for you not saying she is but it could be an option for why she is not interested in sex with you at only 28??

Answer 6

If she is tired all the time, it is probably something physical that needs to get checked out, like anemia or diabetes or fibromyalgia. If she is too tired, then of course she isn't going to want to have sex! Try taking on more of the household chores so that she isn't tired all the time. If you get the physical stuff taken care of, make sure she's eating right, and are helping out around the house so that chores aren't what's making her tired and she still doesn't to have sex, then you need to look at yourself and make sure you aren't letting yourself go, and if that still doesn't help then you need to see a doctor.

Answer 7

Definetely talk to her. Do you have kids? works full time? Consider her and not yourself. Give her everything emotionally she needs- what you would want from her give to her- with no expectations. My husband is most attractive when he helps me around the house like sweep or pick up his clothes. Make her feel valuable like you value what she thinks, how she feels. Tell her in an new way everyday how valuable she is to you. she may not open up at first but just keep telling her and she will tell you what is wrong. ASK Jesus to help you He will.

Answer 8

You haven't given many details for what is a very particular situation, buddy.

Go see a sex therapist

Try to make her life less stressful

Go buy some toys

Ask her what would make her more interested

If you are fat, loose some weight, and take care of yourself, for the love of god. Who wants to hump on a gross guy?

Answer 9

Perhaps you do not know it all, at least in bed. If you were a good lay, perhaps she would feel different. That is the nasty, rough truth coming at you. Suggest you have a serious heart to heart with her and listen for a change. She just may give you a few pointers, or maybe she just gave up because you thought you knew it all ????

Answer 10

wow! i think my husband wishes I had this problem... how about you show so extra attention during the day just a touch or a look or kiss or flirty talk... it doesn't have to be much...hire a babysitter...the kids are a full time job they ware me out some days! watcha porn flick together...go out to dinner, a stroll in the park what does she like to do? take her shopping buy her something she wants then take her home and get what you want... surprize her next time she is in the shower ...climb in to join her... don't push or insult her it takes a little coaxing for some people

Answer 11

Run a warm bath candle lit if she drinks get her drink of choice get in with her wash her back and ASK her to wash yours try romance don't rush everything make her feel wanted and loved if her heart is happy then her pussy is happy too and try a little foreplay LICK THE PEARLTOUNGE I know you know where it is suck gently on the nipples both those two moves are instant stimulants trust me.