Hello Guys and Girls, Very curious to know at what age did you'll loose your virginity and how did it happen

Question

I am a virgin and curious to know . hot do u do it? please give best answers....

By the way I am 24yrs Old

Answer 1

I was 19. She was 17. Yeah, I realized the age at the time. We were friends before. I won’t get into that here. We got together. We messed around a lot - mostly making out, petting and a lot of oral. She kept expressing how much she wanted to do it. I just didn’t know if it was the right time. Primarily it was because we never had any contraception around. Don’t get me wrong, I wanted it badly. I didn’t even care if it was going to be my first time. I wasn’t nervous. I just wanted to be safe for both of us. She had only one other partner, a long-term boyfriend that she broke it off with. She kept asking me to “go for it” in all our other encounters. This time, in the heat of it, when she asked me to make love to her, I whispered, “Go for it.” Then she stripped herself then me. We still didn’t have ANY form of contraception. But the time was right. Go figure. After we both climaxed, she was so satisfied but puzzled. We went for a while. She kept asking me … and this was a question that she kept asking me during our entire relationship … was I really a virgin. I said yes. That was the truth. She said she’s had a virgin. Her friends have had virgins. And none worked it like I did. I told her I wouldn’t know. I just went with what I felt and what felt good for the both of us. I don’t know what the big deal was but shortly thereafter; she harbored this idea that I had a mistress on the side that I “practiced” with. (Her long-term boyfriend did.) Needless to say we went several rounds that day … and night … and following morning. But, alas, the whole relationship was just that – based on sex. No emotional connection at all. It ended.

So I guess my point is that your first time is a big deal, but the euphoria and importance of it will fade and just become a memory. Don’t make it more than it is, just a right of passage for any human being, the emotional creatures we are.

Good luck

Answer 2

I'm a virgin, and I'm 18, and I plan on staying that way until I'm married. I don't look down on people who do have sex, I just choose not to. Have you seen the movie the 40 year old virgin? There's a great line in there from the friend with the curly hair when he's pretending to be the girl and the guy tells him that he's a virgin and he says " Good! I like that. It means you don't have chlamydia, and everyone has that Sh**!". I know it's a silly movie, but it's so true! A girl will feel more special if you wait for the right girl, and you won't pick up any diseases along the way! So my advice is to hold off, and good job for doing so thus far! Kudos!

Answer 3

16

Answer 4

My first time was anything but romantic. I was 17 and I had gotten drunk at a friends and pasted out in the bathroom. I got woke up by my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years. He was so mad at me and I didn't want that, so I let him do it. It was not fun and only lasted 5 minutes. I can't say that I was drug and didn't know what I was doing, but I was drunk and didn't care. Afterwards I spent 2 hours throwing up on the front porch. Sex, not good for a hangover!

Answer 5

erm... in rather an odd situation...14 and on holiday, I celebrating new years and then got sent back to the hotel so my parents could party properly, I snuck out to find a girl I had chatted to in a market earlier that day. She was at the party she said she'd be danced all night, and then went for a walk, went for a swim in a volcanic spring, and watch the sunrise over the mountains, and that's when I lost it. First light of the new year is a special time for me! =P

Answer 6

I lost my virginity at 15 on Memorial Day to Prince's song, When Doves Cry. I commend you on not losing yours yet. There is no rush especially with all the STDs out there. Plus you need to make sure it is the right person, this takes time. Don't rush it, you'll be better off.

Answer 7

I was 16 and it was with the guy I'm with now and I'm 23. We had it after six months of being together, he was very sweet and understanding as he was not a virgin and you just go with the flow.Don't let anybody push you into something your not ready for. Make sure your doing this because you want to and not because you feel you have to.

Answer 8

I'm going to be 20 in August, and I'm still a virgin. I'm a smart, attactive, out-going woman, and have had plenty of boyfriends. However none of them were right for me. I'm currently in a very loving relationship with someone I trust totally, and I know he is the one, and it's the right time for me.

Despite all my friend's losing theirs at 16 and 17, I stuck to what I wanted. People may say it is overrated, but all my friends say that they admire me for not giving in. My current boyfriend was surprised but supportive, and thats made it even better.

It's a personal choice- it's up to you who you lose it with and when. You shouldn't let what other people are doing influence your decisions, or make you feel bad about waiting. I think it's an admirable virtue, especially now when kids as young as 12 are losing theirs in drunken one night stands!

Answer 9

I lost my virginity on my birthday of the age of 18. I moved out of my moms' house, and decided to have sex with the first guy that I thought was cute. I wanted to have sex sooner but waited. I know I probably should have waited until I found a suitable guy/ boyfriend but I just went out and did it. He was great , in bed , though. So it wasn't all a wash! LOL

Answer 10

Mine was taken, by the man i eventually married, in my bedroom when my parents were away. I was 19 at the time and found it painful. If i could re-run history, i would not have done it then as I felt that I was coerced and that it was too soon. What ever you do, don't do it because someone else is pressuring you to do it and don't worry if the first time isn't brilliant. Like all skills it improves with practise.