Thanks to everyone that has been helping me, i appreciate it, and love yall!
5 days ago, my boyfriend and his friend talked to me and told me he doesnt love me, he was cursing, acting like a non christian. Later on that night, he told me it wasnt him.
Earlier today, he did it again. His friend talked to me, saying stuff, then my boyfriend called me a sl*ut, and names when im not that at all.
Im a christian and know i deserve better. But I ended it with him. If he talks to me again, what should i say to him?
Thanks everyone for everything!!
He told me loves me, but he cursed, told me hes gonna get laid, and some other stuff.- That is not very Christian.
He doesnt realize how much i love him... and how he upsets me.
but he rather be around evil.
We've been together for 3 years.
2006-06-06 10:36:31 · 11 answers · asked by inthisskin22x 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love something, Let it go. If it is yours it will come back to you. In his case, run if he comes back. You are not married and he treats you that way. Imagine what he'll do when you are married. You are a christian girl therefore you need a chriastian boyfriend who appreciates you and has the same morals as you do.
2006-06-06 10:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, nice story, my best friend has been through this!, im a christian too, so i know how it is like 4 men to act like that in that way! if he talkes to u again u should tell him how u feel about him calling u names, and ask him how it would feel if someone called him those names! u should also pray 4 him. u may still love him, but u two need to talk, 1 on 1 together. i also know how it feels to be with someone 4 three 3 years. i understand that u love him very much, but u must try to talk with him. if that workes out together, u should spend sometimes together. and also, maybe the reason why he is acting like that in that wasy is maybe because of the friends he has. i know that your boyfriend appreciates you as much as you appreciates him. and if my soloution doent work, try looking 4 another man who you can trust and depend you life on and with! thanxs! hope it works! bye!
2006-06-06 10:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U deserve better than that. If I was u I would not talk to him any more and try and find some one that will treat u right. Good luck.
2006-06-06 10:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive just been in that situation and if he says he is going to cheat BELIEVE him because he's already doing it. thats why he's calling you names that your not, to make himself feel better for what he's doing thats called covering up his guilt. but if your still having sex with please use a condom. Plus you being a christian you don't want to be around him anyway cause he's gonna pull you away from GOD and we don't want that
2006-06-06 10:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by tsclark06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch... I really feel sorry for you. Find him when he's not in one of those moods and talk to him about it. talking is the corniest and oldest answer, but it's very effective, too.
I would talk to him when he isn't in a mood. It depends on what's happening, but it looks like it may be time to move on. I am really sorry for you.
2006-06-06 10:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by bradley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!, He was drunk 5 days ago. Drunk people always say the truth. He really wanted to dump you because he couldn't do it sober.
2006-06-06 10:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by lalaland 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he knew how u was, he should have respected you the first time, i wouldnt give him another chance, he will do it again, or however long u will let him..
2006-06-06 10:44:04 · answer #7 · answered by rebekah h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peer pressure?
2006-06-06 10:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go to hell
2006-06-06 10:39:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. he's not worth it
2006-06-06 10:40:51 · answer #10 · answered by laurenfuimaono 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋