Okay, I have been going through a series of sexual releationships lately and I really don't want to be judged on THAT...
I really like this one guy I have been with and it is impossible for my to (physically) accomodate him. He is so large in both length and width that I can't fit him in anywhere.
He told me that his father is black, but his grandfather (and great-grandfather) are Italian. I know firsthand about the 'skills' of each type of man. (Black=loooooong, Italian=thick.)
My question is this: Do you think this accounts for his size? I really am interested in knowing if this 'cross-breeding' is the reason he is such a monster.
Any females with experience in this area, please answer!!!
2006-06-06 10:34:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you are mislead thinking that "ALL Black men are this" and "ALL Italian men are that" it has nothing to do with the race, it's the genes.
And as for you not being able to handle it, that too is just no so, your body is made to give birth to a baby, that can be from 3lbs. to 10lbs. and anything in between, so you can handle him , IF YOU WANT TO, I wouldn't tell you to go in and just jam it but, there are somethings that you can do to make it easier for you and him as well.
You may start off slow and wet, what I mean is you can get you some KY gel and it will help.
You could also check out this show called "Talk Sex" with Dr.Johannsen (she is the host) She is very good and you could call in with your questions it comes on the oxygen channel on Saturday night/Sunday morning, check out your local listings & times.
I will tell you this much as long as he knows what he's doing with it, it can be a wonderful thing.
Whatever you do don't let him bang!bang!bang!!! you because it can hurt you okay?
2006-06-06 10:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - there is no real racial component involved - on average there are as many big thick white guys as there are balcks and latinos - only asians seem to be on the small side as a race
but yes genetics plays a part - grandfathers and faters predict the size of their grandchildren/sons
I empathise with your bf - I am quite big at 9" erect and very wide ay 6.5" around and yes it can be difficult --- but I believe that "big" men end up far better lovers because we spend so much effort learning great foreplay to allow ladies to accomodate us - also once we are in - there are no spots untouched so to speak!!
so perservere - work more on the foreplay and no - he will not stretch you out of shape - it does spring back!!
2006-06-06 17:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,this doesnt account for his size.Its just a genetic trait that would be in the family.There are guys that are big in all races,white,latino and so forth,without being of mixed races.Believe it or not there are average black men.And by the way you can accomodate.It will just take time and patients with both of you to slowly stretch your muscles out.After all thats where babies come from.
2006-06-06 17:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by d.a.s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems likely that genetics play a part in the length and girth of appendages, but you shouldn't judge a guy by his steroytpical heritage, it is equally possible a man without this kind of background could have a similar size.
2006-06-06 17:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are talking about your private sexual encounters online. And ALL your questions are of this nature? I feel sorry for your man, black, italian, whatever. I'd dump you in a New York minute.
2006-06-06 17:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sounds like you are very lucky. I dont think it is necessary for you to completely accomidate him. I think it is a little hard to stereotype a group of people like that though, while one italian may be thick, his neighbor may not.
2006-06-06 17:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
genetics can play a major part in his situatuion but it could be that he was just blessed to be that way. cross breeding isnt always the cure to these things
2006-06-06 17:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by yideopen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might be the reason why he is so thick and long but that is suppose to bring u alot of pleasure so just bite ur lip and close your eyes
2006-06-06 17:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by rav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lolll thats most likely the reason. i havent any experience like what youre describing though -- ive only been with asians :]] no problems there.
2006-06-06 17:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by sugrsmtr287 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have no idea but if you want you can send him to me I will be happy to investigate the problem
2006-06-06 17:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋