The people that I'm always around are very strict christiann (they think if your skirt is too short your causing someone to sin). My parents are the exact same way, they just allowed me to go to school this I have been homeschool for the rest of my until now. So how am I supposed to tell them that I'm gay should just let them find out on their own or should I sit them both down and tell them or should I just act like I do at and let them figure it out? I need help! PLEASE someone help me.
2006-06-06 10:28:55 · 28 answers · asked by gurlinneed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That really is a hard one to answer, a part of me would tell you to tell your parents yet there is a chance that things there could go sour. If I were you I would do my research i.e. stories out of the bible ( The good simaritain, the prodgical son... to name a couple. the prodgical son talks about unconditional love.)
Remember being gay isnt against any belief its the sexual acts that arent liked in the church before marriage that goes for those who identify as straight as well,
But if you decide to hide it they will find out in the long run. Maybe drop hints here and there.
2006-06-06 10:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by darci b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is definitely a tuff subject, But one that happens all to often around me in my life not that I am gay but my parents are very strict Christians. And so I've been around a lot of the same scenario. It may be hard to do for u but expect it to be hard for your parents to give them some space to blow up after u tell them. Then it is their biggest test of faith to LOVE you no matter who or what u are as the bible says "If you follow the first two commandments then all the rest of them will fall in place" "Love thy neighbor as you would want him to love you" "Love the lord thy god only" If any man sin against ONE of these commandments then he is guilty of them all" Whatever you do don't let your parents bring u down. LOVE THEM EVEN IF THEY DO U WRONG++++ Best Wishes KW
2006-06-06 10:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell them. It will be uncomfortable and it may lead to a few arguments, but you can't deny who you are. My parents are the same way. They are so religious that they think that all crazy people go to hell and that mental illness is a symptom of sin. They weren't happy when I told them that I suffered from depression, but I had no other choice because it isn't healthy to pretend. Be who you are and tell them the truth.
2006-06-06 10:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ixy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u? in school still i see... . your -you and that's the way you are ! sometime they are going to have to find out ,and even more..... they will have to except it.!!!!! im so sorry you have to feel like they will not except you . that's plain wrong. being alive is hard enough without other obstacles and if your family loves you they will get over it. i know its not a choice and i hope they can too . tell them the truth .... even if they flip out you will feel a sense of relief because you are being honest with your self and who you are! you deserve nothing less than to be able to be free inside! tell them that god will judge you and you just need them to understand that this is who you are. make no appologies because its not wrong..... believe me i know.
2006-06-06 10:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by pinksgirlfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell anyone? We don't feel compelled to go around telling people our other sexual preferences, so why do folks feel the need to tell the world they like the same sex? Don't let this define you. You are much more than this to let it be how you view yourself in the world, or to let others try to define you by it.
2006-06-06 10:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by Keith H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them in a small meeting with the people u care for and tell them that this is a fact that they have to live with it and if they didnt accept it that means that they dont accept u for who u r.......which means that u dont deserve them..u desrve better
2006-06-06 10:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but alot of the reasons people turn gay are because they are watched over too much and like arent around ENOUGH people.....and just be yourself around themand if they dont like it tell them to go screw off!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-06 10:37:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself sit your parents down and talk to them it will take time but they will come around
2006-06-06 10:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to tell them unless you feel better doing so. If you want to tell your parents. Tell them and if they don't understand, dont worry about it because you can't help who you love or what you love.
2006-06-06 10:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them
2006-06-06 10:37:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋