i followed him on his date the other day after his best friend told me what was going on. no i dont stalk my boyfriends. but when they go out on another date with someone besides me, when we're going out then i feel i have every right to!!! grrrrr! was this ok and how do i tell him about what happened that night.
PS: he knows none of this
2006-06-06 09:53:36 · 7 answers · asked by cutie pie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you two are going out he doesn't have a right to kiss other girls. That is not acceptable for a healthy relationship. Talk to him about it. Ask him if he needs to tell you anything...if he doesn't confess, then ask him about the person, or the day... Even if he is sorry it will be hard for him to tell you... he knows he hurt you...and is most likely afraid of what is going to happen because of what he did. So you might have to spell it out for him to talk about it. I saw/heard you kissed ________ (name of persn) when you were _________ (location) on _____day (date of incident). You deserve to know how and why he did this.... Although, this is hard to hear, you might want to concider leaving him. For good. Unless you seriously think he is sorry, that he cares about you more than anyone in the world and has learned his lesson, then you can consider staying with him. But make sure you make the right choices for yourself. You are very important and no one should be able to walk all over your heart.
2006-06-06 10:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Rosalie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you have a steady boyfriend or you don't. You may think you have, but it seems obvious that he doesn't.
You may as well give him the old heave ho, as you don't have him exclusively anyway.
If you want a steady boyfriend, find one, who will be true to you.
Why be just another notch on that guys belt.
Be number one, not a numbe two or three, etc.
2006-06-06 09:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You saw them kiss? Just confront his lame *** and dump him. He has no right going out with other girls unless you have the right to go out with other guys. You don't need to find an excuse... you don't need him.
2006-06-06 09:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you found out he went out with someone else, and then give him a chance to explain.
If it doesn't satisfy you (and there has to be a GOOD reason why), then dump him.
2006-06-06 09:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask. don't hide anything except the stalking part, maybe just blame it on one of your friends who saw all of this happen.
2006-06-06 10:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by dari98dae99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and kiss another guy and let him find out, or let him witness it, he will go nuts and go on his knees and beg you to come back to him...
2006-06-06 09:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM ! Refuse to tolerate this behavior.
2006-06-06 09:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by rt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋