I've been seeing a guy for about 3 months I've been with him everyday. I know I've changed being with him, and he's not the nicest guy. I enjoy his company though, were not in a reloationship and that's what bothers everyone. I stay the night at his house several days in a row and I never have time with anyone. I really care about this guy ALOT!!! He still has never met my family though, then the other night my dad kicked me out of the house for being with this guy, my friends all hate him, and I wish I could see where they are coming from, but my heads all clouded with how much I care about this guy. I'm 20 years old and I should be able to do what I want, but peole say he's going to hurt me and there just trying to help me before it happens, but there are so many times that I think he's starting to love me. I don't know if its real but it feels that way to me I know I'm being nieve, but what if I end it then I spend a long time wondering What If?
2006-06-06 09:43:25 · 8 answers · asked by sweetgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are afraid to let it go just so that you know your WHAT IFs
if i were you i would listen to my parents at least they have the right to have a say in with whom we want to spend the rest of the life
just remember if you are hurt your whole family will be hurt so they must be thinking for the best for you and also they are looking out for you
you yourself say that he is not the best guy but you love him
i wonder whether you really love him or not
you also dont know whether he loves you or not
are you going to hurt your family for someone whom you are not sure loves you or not
its your choice
your parents and friends or him(whom you not sure loves you or not)
2006-06-15 11:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by prlnr 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The way you are thinking, is everyone else is wrong and your are right. But yet you admit, he's not a nice guy, and that he hasn't said or shown you, that he loves you yet. Just a thought that he may just be heading that way.
Seems that you are on a self destructive course and are being blinded by this guy.
You have already been thrown out of your home, are losing your family and friends, what more do you need to wake you up.
If you are writing here for help, it seems you know what's wrong, and are looking for a way out.
Give the guy up, it won't be any loss to you, and gain back your family and friends and recover your life.
Find some decent guy, and see how good your life can be, with him.
2006-06-06 09:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so caught up in him that you are not able to see what others around you see. There is a reason why no one who cares about you approves of him. Yes you can make up your own mind but I would seriously take into consideration what others are telling you and why. When you really care about someone it's easy to overlook their flaws or make excuses for them. Be careful, please, I've been there and I wish I had listened to my friends and family sooner!!!
2006-06-06 10:18:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still live at home & ur 20? well, dont worry about wht othrs say, ur the one hes w/not them so yeah
2006-06-06 09:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should follow your heart but otherwise, you should also take into connsideration why people around you were not supporting it.. if you follow your heat make sure you wont blame anyone for that,
2006-06-06 09:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're blinded my lust and everyone else can see what you can't. Your friends know better. dump him
2006-06-08 08:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by so_hot_i_steam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should c y ya friendz hate him or u could jus break ^ wit him
2006-06-17 04:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥KiYa♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him and he likes you the hell with what everyone else thinks!!!
2006-06-16 15:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋