Can you be inlove with someone who you dont even know?
2006-06-06 09:29:44 · 24 answers · asked by wayladuley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sure can, and it sucks
2006-06-06 09:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. It's silly. Just get a real boyfriend or girlfriend. No sense falling for someone you don't really know. It's like living in a fantasy.
Didn't you ever see that commercial where this lady has a really sexy voice, then you see her and she's like 400 lbs? Well that's what internet dating is all about - Fantasys and false advertisement.
So, not it's not a 'real' relationship if you do not know the person. That's just silly....What next online marriage? Virtual children?
What's with the 'abuse' of the term love lately? Love is the deepest, most compassionate force. You cannot LOVE someone without knowing them. In fact I bet 90% of the people you've ever claimed to have loved has been 'infatuation'. Don't cheapen the word. You will go through 100 boyfriends before you figure out what love is. Just because you like him doesn't mean you love him. Love is the most selfless emotion, it has nothing to do with you.
Here try reading this (and I'm not even Christian and I agree with this);
http://www.documentsanddesigns.com/verse/VERSE-Bible_Verses.htm
You can be infatuated with anyone. (Infatuation is the butterfly in the stomache feeling often deplicted in movies as love). Love takes hard work.
As for any other responses to your question; Are you asking the Children or the Adults? Everyone that responds with 'yes' has never really loved someone. (I'm especially irritated with the 'yes if you've seen a pix' response) What are we teaching our kids these days???
2006-06-06 16:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello no there is no way I could be involved with someone I don't know I think that is whack a lot of people has been killed and some hurt by trying to that kind of dating I'm totally against that I know this man that thought he was dating this lady in Mexico and he had been writing to another man the man was guy my friend was very heart broken and hurt by everything that happened to him all because he wanted to try to find love in a different way.the man even sent him pictures they turned out to be his sisters so I tell you all that think you can be involved with someone you don't even know you had better know what you are doing they're tricksters out there so be careful please
2006-06-06 16:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend son what you mean by "know". Don't know they exist? Don't know them on a personal level? Or perhaps someone you've never met in person, but have spoken to and/or met on-line? The latter is true for me.
2006-06-06 16:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you know them from work or a group of friends and not really personally. But I donot believe in being in love with someone you have never met.
2006-06-06 16:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bchlvr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey love is a very big thing which wants a very long time, you can go only in infactuation with someone who you dont even know
2006-06-06 16:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by ashish v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. I am currently in love with a friend i met online. He's 17 and we are really close. We both love eachother but he lives in a different state.. its hard but yes you can..
2006-06-06 16:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More like infatuated. Not love, you are only in love with the idea of this person that you created in your head.
2006-06-06 16:32:27 · answer #8 · answered by Das ist mein fluch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
You can be lustful towards someone, but love requires a bit more.
2006-06-06 16:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like a total stranger you know nothing about, then NO.
if it's someone you just met and don't know really well then YES.
you can't help how you feel can you?
2006-06-06 16:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Maybe you'll be in love someday, but I don't understand the whole, "I don't even know him but I love him" thing.
2006-06-06 16:31:48 · answer #11 · answered by Jesus Freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋