I dated a girl for about a month and it didn't end all that well, but not extremely badly. Anyway I'm on myspace and a few weeks after it ended with her, her sister contacted me and we've started chatting a bit. Should I continue to talk to her sister and maybe ask her out, or would that be a bad move considering I had dated her sister before.
2006-06-06 09:25:12 · 17 answers · asked by Ed5532 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
An extra piece of info is the girl basically dumped me for another guy. So I know dating her sister to get her back is not a good idea, but it seems like it would feel so, so good.
2006-06-06 11:28:45 · update #1
I wouldn't suggest it...blood is thicker then water and you will eventually LOSE that one!!
2006-06-06 09:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by smarteepants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has the potential to cause drama - but since you only dated for a month thats not such a long time. You should ask your ex how she feels and if she would mind - and/or you could talk to the current sister and tell her that you dated her sister and see how she reacts.
You need to be on the up and up with these girls - don't try to be shady, because they will find out and drama will start.
2006-06-06 09:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sure won't make your ex happy.. but maybe you should talk to her sister about it .. considering the fact that you said your relationship ended badly , yes the girl might talk to you and all but that doesn't mean she is willing to date you since you had a not so good relationship with her sister
2006-06-06 09:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very bad move... unless the sisters agree to it...... you need to talk to the ex first... somethings are just NOT done between sisters, like sharing a b/f, even if he is an ex......... but I would not count on the sisters seeing eye to eye on this... it sounds like sister wanted you in the first place and was just waiting for the break up...... I could be wrong....... but you had better do some hard thinking and looking..... it could get real ugly my friend......... real ugly !!!!!!!!!!! God bless
2006-06-06 09:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
F*CK NO! that's the stupidest thing i've ever heard, you do not under any circumstances have any type of relationship with someone that has a continueing relationship with an ex! NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO it's a bad bad idea
2006-06-06 09:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that is such a good idea. even tho ur realtionship with the first sister didnt end that badly she will probably talk crap about you to try and ruin ur chances. also i know if my sister dated my ex i would kill her. so just be careful
2006-06-06 09:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not...you don't owe her anything and if her sister is worth pursuing, it's on her sister to explain things. Just make sure your ex doesn't know anything about you you don't want the sister to know and that your ex is going to drag your name through **** when she finds out.
2006-06-06 09:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by darkon prime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! There are plenty girls in the world that you don't have to date your x sister.
2006-06-06 09:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this person is spying for your ex. You see, your ex seems insecure and jealous of you., and perhaps immature too.
2006-06-06 09:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is....if u want ur ex to like kill u, not literally. It's a terrible idea!
2006-06-06 09:28:44 · answer #10 · answered by cheergirl1995@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋