im too boring for girls?

Question

im a 20yr old male 21 this year and ive only had 1 gf ever that was set up by my mum.im a quiet person and shy when it comes to girls and i go red and panic it annoys my so much but i hardly talk and i prefere 50s rock n roll music and stuff like that plus im a romantic which hardly any girls want these days help?

Answer 1

it is all about you man...when you hit mid-late 20's you will realize what others think does not matter. and you will feel more freedom that you are gonna make yourself happy no matter what they think, because.....it's all about you. everyone gets a lil nervous when meeting a new girl/guy.....even the hard a$$e$, dont let em fool ya. just be yourself and understand that no matter what others think or feel toward you, it is you that you have to face each morning and live the rest of your life with so make sure you live each day as it is your last nad just have fun with life....when you die, what do you want said about you.....you never spoke to anyone, very shy kind of a loner...or he enjoyed life to the fullest.

Answer 2

Where do I sign up? HeHeHe First, I am a married woman who is 20 sum years old. Don't get in any hurry. I know its lonely out there but you should go to some places that play your kind of music and the same kind of things you like and meet someone there with the same interests. Have a good time. You are not boring just yourself. Who knows having a gf may not be all its cracked up to be.

Answer 3

the only reason a female nicely-knownshows a guy boring is as a results of the fact he would not cause them to snort. Laughter joins human beings at the same time as a bloke must be giving the girlie interest to get her to snort. Its substantial to undertaking an interest in who you're with and not basically ramble on with regard to the failings you discover thrilling. i might additionally warn strongly against sitting there with a itemizing of jokes that's an utter turn off - extra perfect to discover something humorous in whats around you or tell a humorous tale. A humorous guy is typical and renowned in spite of ways he seems - my husband is a dogs yet he makes me snort like a drain so thats why i like him and now he's spectacular to me!

Answer 4

You probably are, but don't worry about it, most everyone is. Eventually the herd will be thinned out a little, when you're around 27-28 and then you'll start looking like quite a catch.

Answer 5

Be yourself, and don't let your mom set up dates. It may take awhile, but the right one will come to you. In the meantime, get some really good friends that are girls to help you get over your shyness.

Answer 6

we all can have a positive mental attitude no matter what the consequence's are and i believe that you Need a taste of this.... so get your self out there and do what others are doing positively.... just like a copying game.... or in other-words metaphorically speaking like a parrot repeating what people say and do..... you will be surprised at yourself when you have confidence.xxxxxx

Answer 7

1 find girls who are into 50's music. 2. ask yourself, if you were a girl, would you go out with you?

Answer 8

2 choices.

1 - join a dating club. some can be helpful if your shy.

2 - give up on relationships and get a nice hooker instead.

Answer 9

just be yourself, you will meet someone. But the way girls dont bite, so dont be scared of them and yes there are girls out there who still like romantics.

Answer 10

ahhhhh dont think like that! im sure the right girl will come along that suits your personality. never doubt yourself! i used to think the same and i never change for anyone and its worked out all ok for me. never give up! good luck!