that way you know if your getting what you like right off the bat!
2006-06-06 08:51:15 · 13 answers · asked by mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol Good point, but for me, just kissing on the first date, and we'll see what happens on the second. If it was really good and there was chemistry like no other, then there is a possibility of more than kisses on the 2nd date. But sex on the first date... no way. For women it's hard to know if that's all the guy wants.
2006-06-06 08:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First instinct is that, yea sex is good. But on the other hand if you want a relationship, sex on first date is bad. Physical actions out of formed emotional connections are foundations of long relationships, while emotional connections formed from physical contact are the recipe for disaster
2006-06-06 15:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The acceptable thing to do is to wait. But lets face it many persons have sex on the first date anyway. I think whether you wait or do it right away has little or no bearing on your relationship lasting. I have known men who court and wait for years. After two or so encounters they are gone. Those of us who consider ourselves proper prefer to wait nonetheless.
2006-06-06 16:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Annie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't have sex on the first date. And if I did, I wouldn't want to date that person - it would be a one-night stand or something. You "know what you're getting" when you know WHO you're getting, and you don't usually know that ON the first date. Sex is secondary.
2006-06-06 16:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because that would mean starting the relationship off on the wrong foot. you would probably think of her as a 304 and she of you as a player...so NO I would not do it not only for that but for respect to myself.
2006-06-06 15:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Adri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can't do that without getting a reputation so no. It's a double standard guys do it all the time and they are considered "The man" but for girls it's totally different.
2006-06-06 15:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by LilLiE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would at least wait until like the third or forth date because unless youre a slut you should want to know what the person is like
2006-06-06 15:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Peyton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont that will be right.it means you only want the girl for fun
2006-06-06 15:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES,IF THE RELATIONSHIP WAS SINCERE,BUT I LIVE IN REALITY NOT HOLLYWOOD
2006-06-06 15:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is kind of nice to think of but I would never do it.
2006-06-06 15:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by kiki_t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋