Yes I have had affair before but I am not ever doing that again. Please I only want serious and considerate answers.
2006-06-06 08:49:02 · 9 answers · asked by bubbles26 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't live with the secret then tell him if you cant probably best not too. The other suggestions are right us guys worry a lot about previous guys as we are territorial; in a sense and like to know that there wasnt anyone else. Sounds dumb but then again love isnt exactly straight fwd. when I found out the same thing I was actually quite interested and wante to know more. ...good luck & let us know what you decide!
2006-06-07 05:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by bigbrother 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honesty is to important to look over in a relationship... I think you need to tell him, it is really no big deal now, you did it, you will never do it again, and it is in the past.... but, I wonder how far into this relationship you are... if over 3 months then I think it is time to tell, if under 3 months, well it is an option but a not have to thing... guys are funny about finding stuff out from others, they tend to blow it all out of porpotion.... and think you are hiding more than is being told..... yes, you are taking a chance by telling him, but if the relationship is worth anything to him, he will get over it or it may not bother him at all...... so I vote tell...... God bless
2006-06-06 16:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learn the hard way....never tell a man anything like that. Girl take it to your grave. The reason why I say don't tell depending on what type of guy he is, he just might look at you differently and use it against every chance he can. Some secrets are worth keeping.
2006-06-06 16:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By no means are you required to share information about your past relationships with your current boyfriend, but if it gets very serious you will probably end up talking about it. I think you should wait until the time is right and it comes up naturally in the conversation. If he loves you he won't judge too harshly. Everyone has done things they aren't particularly proud of and I guarantee he is no exception.
2006-06-06 15:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to tell him out of the blue, do it! If not, you don't really have to. Unless you start talking about your personal lives before you were together. He should love you for what you are, not for what you were. Good luck!
2006-06-06 15:54:27 · answer #5 · answered by Aliondra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you shouldn't one lesson in life that females learn to late NEVER tell your mate everything about your pass because it will hurt you in the long run they hold that against you or use that to be a reason why they leave you so DON"T what every you do don't tell him everything about your especially that
2006-06-06 15:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I wouldn't tell him. First of all, if you guys just met then right now it is none of his business. I would wait til you know how serious your relationship is and where it is going to tell him. Unless you two start discussing this kind of subject.
2006-06-06 15:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by chellebeth75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better that he find out from you, then someone else. Be honest and up front. I had to admit to some past sexual indiscretions prior to marrying my wife, but I wanted her to here it from me, not from someone else. Honesty is always the best policy.
2006-06-06 15:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell him if it was before him. Did he ask? If he asked than it is important to him and you should be prepared to accept how he feels about it.
2006-06-06 15:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by buxomkity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋