I always get stopped on the street by men & women that tell I'm a pretty girl w/ a good personality. Why is it that I can't find an attractive man without extra baggage or drama. The people that try to talk to me are usually too young, too old, five kids & four baby mama's, no job, etc. Why I am I having so much trouble?
2006-06-06 08:34:09 · 8 answers · asked by bronxbaby410 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know, if I were single, I'd be the first in line to ask you out. But maybe the right guy for you just isn't ready for you. When my fiance died of cancer, it took me a long time just to be able to love a woman like that again. If I'd met my wife a couple of years earlier, there would have been no way I could have maintained a relationship with her without screwing it up. So maybe your guy is out there and just not ready yet.
Or maybe you're just in the wrong place yourself. It's possible that you need to be alone for awhile, to find out who you really are, before you're in the right frame of mind to attract the right guy.
Anyway, it'll happen. Probably when you least expect it. Don't wander around wondering where all the right guys are. Just live life, and something will happen. Trust me on this.
2006-06-06 12:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by VinTek 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is probably the place you are in. Other than that I don't know unless you are surrounded by gay guys. You sound nice and intelligent. Just be patient because the perfect guy is close, I can feel it! Good luck! I am nice and have no baggage or drama in case you wanted to know. Good luck in your search and hit me up if want to talk!
2006-06-06 15:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have high expectations of the guy that you want. Not that it's bad, because if he cannot fulfill them, you won't be happy right?
But maybe you would like to review some of these expectations of yours. Age is usually not a big problem if it is truly love and not lust, but you do want be careful of those with emotional baggage, because you don't want to hurt yourself.
Keep your eyes open for the right guy for you, you just haven't met him yet. Good luck!
2006-06-06 15:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times where you look makes all the difference. Find an organization that you can work with and is a good cause. Maybe you will find someone with similar interests there.
2006-06-06 15:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not you. probably just the wrong place. also, when you are single, its hard to find someone. But when you eter in a relationship, thats when everyone comes to you.. maybe subconsciously when we are single, we look available, or give off an available look, and when we aren't-- well you jknow, pwoplw want what they cant have,and so they approach us when we are involved.
2006-06-12 16:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem....no kids own my condo and my house ....no kids...i guess it's always the ppeople who are trying to make something of their lives who spend that time alone. until you're rich or something then they all start to flock...lol
2006-06-06 15:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send me an email,let's "discuss" this
2006-06-06 15:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINE BEAUTIFUL
2006-06-06 15:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by macster43 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋