2006-06-06 07:58:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not ask your financee, unless of course your financee doesn't fulfill all your needs and you have to go elsewhere to have them fulfilled.
2006-06-06 08:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Flirtation can be seen as a very serious matter as well as someone just being playful. It all depends what level of flirting you are talking about. There are three(3) levels of flirtation...
1. Talk or behave amorously, without serious intentions;
2. Playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest ;
3. Seductive woman who uses her sex appeal to exploit men.
Now if it is the first one...and the party you are flirting with understand that you have NO serious intentions, then it is ok. We sometimes flirt to lighten the mood around someone nothing more and that is ok.
However if your flirting goes beyond this and now is at the level of number2 or 3...then you are entering dangerous grounds. This is when flirting is not ok. This type of flirting can easily transform into cheating. I am sure that you would not like this to happen being engaged and all. Also ask yourself this question: Would you be ok with the fact that your husband-to-be is flirting with HIS coworkers? Just remember that TRUST is the most important element in any happy relationship....So always make sure that all your actions will not cause your man to question your trust.
Congrats on your engagement.
ZEN
2006-06-06 08:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Zenqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of flirting you are doing. If it's just a bit of playful banter or things that are meant to be taken very lightly then I see no harm in it. The problem really arises if either of you start to take it seriously or if your partner minds. In either of these cases you should stop flirting with your co-worker and make it quite clear to them that you are only interested in your partner. Plus if it's harmless then you will not feel uncomfortable discussing it with your partner. When you start lieing to them, it's a sure sign that things have gone too far. So long as you safeguard against these things and are honest with your partner there is no harm in looking, without touching ofcourse!
2006-06-06 08:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by Shazza01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends, if all your doing is flirting then theres nothing wrong with it as long as you set boundaries and do nothing more then flirt, some people are just naturally flirty even without realizing it, i have been happily married for five years and we both are actually flirty... i think its okay as long as you are both secure in your relationship and you know when to say no and that are secure in the fact that you are spending the rest of your life with this person and that you dont want anyone else... if you think you arent strong enough to say no to something other then harmless flirting then you shouldnt be... the question is are you mature and are you and your future husband both secure enough in your relationship to trust that nothing else will happen???
it all depends on the couple and what type of person you are...
2006-06-06 08:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by hearts_bleed_dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is innocent and not leading anywhere, remember that the line between flirting and disrespecting your relationship is very thin. And it also depends on how you would feel if your partner was the one flirting, people always say thay wouldn't care to get themselves off the hook, until they see it.
2006-06-06 08:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by buxomkity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you even have to ask this question screams "cancel the wedding!!!!" do your partner a favor,,,, break or at least postpone your wedding until you grow up and are actually ready for the committment that a marriage is all about.
2006-06-06 08:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by itsjustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you flirt with a guy, he is going to think you want it. No such thing as innocent flirtation.
2006-06-06 08:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by capu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your doing thatthat could mean your really not ready for a realionship
but again you might need to flirt to get your job done
2006-06-06 08:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by n K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it dependas hw u flirt like if u smile at him or something well i guess thats ok but if ur like lickin ur li;ps or something then well i dont think u should be ingaged
2006-06-06 08:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by diferdoper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do and have. I even have a work husband and both of our spouses is o.k. with it.
Flirting is fun as long as it is not taken so seriously.
2006-06-06 08:00:50 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋