Do you ever think you'd be better off dead?

Question

Do you ever just think that you've reached your limits and you can't go on any further.
Do you ever just want to stop all the pain, drama, and hate in your life?

Answer 1

In the scheme of the world - it will go on with out you. The world will go on when anyone dies, even presidents and world leaders. But,


In the scheme of your family and friends - it be profound in some way, and in ways you can never imagine.

Answer 2

I never think I'd be better off dead.

I DO, however, wish I could stop the pain, drama, and hate in my life. I just try my hardest to be strong and happy. I laugh A LOT, I play A LOT, I help others, which helps A LOT.
When you've reached "your limits", you have to know that you CAN go further.

Answer 3

Yes....many times....I went through a very deep depression about 3 years ago and I still fall back into it at times but I have people in my life, like my son, who are relying on me...they are counting on me and to think of the pain that they would go through if I would do something to myself...it's just unfathomable...plus I would miss out on soooo many precious times in my family's life....because I was enough of a coward to just call it quits and not actually stand tall and be strong....in the end, I don't want to be remembered that way...even though I may be going through my own pain right now....you just have to keep telling yourself that you will fight....you are strong...no-one is going to push you around...you don't have to "permit" drama in your life!! I got rid of a lot of things in my life last year that were not good for me, some of that which was actually a so called "friend" or two....sometimes people that we think are looking out for us are really the cause of our pain and depression, we just have to open up our eyes. I have come to quite a few conclusions in the past year and I don't always have awesome days but overall I'm doing soooo much better! Make the changes in your life that you know will make a difference...even if it's just a small thing, you would be surprised how differently it might affect you. Start off slowly and work your way up and hopefully before you know it....you will be living a happier life!
Good Luck!!

Answer 4

Yes I have And Yes I have and Yes I do nearly everyday to each and every question... I live with a painful chronic condition which limits my life a great deal... makes it hard even on the man in my life , but he has convinced me that he still wants me in his life because when I have a good day, I can still make him laugh and sees the old me still in this body.... so here I stay for the time being..

Answer 5

particular I unquestionably have. I too have prayed to die and concept my infants could be greater beneficial off without me. i attempted taking my own existence, yet botched that too. My scar serves now as a reminder of what became then and what's now. That became some years in the past and now i'm happier than I unquestionably have ever been, yet i do no longer think of i'm going to have favorite what I unquestionably have now if I had no longer huge-unfold the depths of melancholy and how particularly poor and depressing existence could be. in case you have a newborn, you have all the kinfolk you like and by no ability EVER think of she could be greater beneficial off without her mom. Your existence and your newborn's existence are presents with an expiration date. do no longer waste yet another minute. detect a counselor, priest, pal, anybody you could confer with unquestionably and overtly. Having to place the region so as by explaining it to somebody else each and every so often enables us positioned it in perspective in our very own minds. we can not replace the previous yet we do have particularly the potential to alter the destiny. initiate from at present forward. do no longer seem decrease back and don't experience sorry for your self. grab up that little lady and include a favorable destiny together with her, and don't muddle her youthful existence at the same time with your person sorrows. good success, appropriate desires and remember "To the worldwide you could properly be purely one person, yet to one person you could desire to be the worldwide."

Answer 6

I have before. Many times. I had to take a long look at myself and what was around me, and I realized I wasn't being true to myself - that I wasn't who I wanted to be. I was pretending to be somebody else, and so I was always uncomfortable and awkward and out of place and miserable.

I realized that PART of me was someone I admired - I admired the choices she made, and how people looked at her, etc. I also realized that if I let her shine a bit more and worked on her instead of working on 'faking it' for people who didn't actually care about me, I did finally become the woman I always dreamed of being. Every day is a joy for me now.

If you don't like yourself, or the way things are going in your life, you could try making a list of qualities that you would like to have, or the kinds of friends you would like to have, what your IDEAL life would be, and then list ways you can get there.

Answer 7

Of course...i think everyone has felt that way before! I felt like that most when I was suffering from a breakup...I was so sad and upset and heartbroken that I just wanted to die. I knew that I wouldnt kill myself, but I prayed for God to take me home almost every night while I was crying. Its hard stuff to go through, to be sure! If you continue feeling this way, please consider trying to find some help. I found out I was clinically depressed when I felt this way, and some medication helped. I dont take the medication anymore, but I feel like I have healed from it. there is hope, sweetie! dont give up on life!

Answer 8

Yes I have to be honest I do but I pray to God or I go to church and then I realize that it's life and we all feel like that sometimes. So just pray and you will be okay. Trust me I've been thru so much with my family, friends, ppl that I don't even know girls especially they hate me for no reason, my boyfriend everyone around me. But I get over it I realize that they don't mean nothing to me and the hurt will come to pass Life is full of up's and Downs.

Answer 9

I think everyone has thought that at some point or another, the goal is to think positive...there are people out there who do care and are willing to help if you need it. I've had a personal experience similar, only mine involved drugs...I was doing terrible, on the verge of running away from everyone and possibly even considered suicide...but my family is what helped me...and the hardest part, I know it sucks, but admit that you need someone....the only way people know you need help is if you reach out to them. Try to keep positive...life will deal you a mess...but its up to you to clean it up! Good luck!

Answer 10

Sometimes I think the world would be better without me, but think about what the world would be like if you died, your family and friends would most likely miss you. I think about it all the time, but I release what things I can do with my life, like win awards and get married.
Hows that an answer from a 13 year old?

Answer 11

i believe that everyone at some point in their lives had contemplated ending it all. we wouldnt be human if we didnt, but living is so much better. i dont know how old you are nor your circumstances might be, but just think about the ones you leave behind and wishing they could have stopped thier loved one from commiting suicide. for the rest of their lives they wonder what they could have done to change it...i always think that tomorrow is going to be better..every new day brings us another chance to make things better..