2006-06-06 07:33:46 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just kiss her lips I don't know I haven't done it either!
2006-06-06 07:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, if you've never kissed a girl before then you are fairly young, if this is true then chances are she is also fairly young, and if this too is true then chances are she doesn't know how to kiss either. Here's a hint, go slowly. Don't try to gag her with your tongue, it's intimidating and yucky. You aren't expected to be Cassanova right off the bat mate, give yourself time, the first time, a nice soft kiss on the lips, slight pressure, perhaps for like 2-3 seconds and after that intial one (which is the most frightening) it'll be easy peezy. Good luck
2006-06-18 13:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by the blue olive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the kiss happen naturally. Don't get caught up in technique or having "good breath." When the time comes to kiss and her lips are waiting, take charge - but gently. Move slowly and place your lips upon hers and give her a small kiss. Keep your mouth mostly closed at first - don't use the tongue just yet. Give her small kisses around her lips. Take your time to get used to the feeling - she's probably somewhat new to kissing as well. You can also gently kiss the areas around her mouth as well. Try to get your hands involved - gently touching and caressing her hand, neck, or hair.
Remember - move slowly, be gentle, and take the time to enjoy one of the best things in life.
2006-06-20 07:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by wuzzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, a girl thinks:
You should not slobber excessively, especially for a first kiss with someone new. The tongue is supposed to be exploring, not taking over enemy territory, and just a little is usually enough. Please don't venture too far into the mouth.
Beyond that, keep it gentle but without hesitating, relax, enjoy the moment, nibble, maybe small licks on the lips until she invites you to do more by opening her mouth.
And please remember that every woman loves different things, After the first hurdle, just ask what else you can do for her. Besides, sex isn't a competition sport, and everyone has to learn sometime, so if she judges you too harshly without offering advice ... ditch her.
2006-06-06 07:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Alex G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have good breath if a girl starts lookin 4 the right key and takes a lond time 2 find it she wants 2 be kissed if she finds the key automatically she don't wanna be kissed
2006-06-19 16:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take her by surprise, but don't ask her permission either. That was always a turn-off for me.
Stay soft and gentle, no tongue on the first kiss unless she initiates.
Make sure your breath is fresh.
If she backs off after the first kiss, don't pressure her and don't ask what you did wrong. She's just probably not ready to go to that level yet.
If she melts in your arms or moves closer, go in for the second.
Good luck.
2006-06-20 07:30:27 · answer #6 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone's right... gentle and soft. Have mints/tic-tacs that you can chew up before you go in for the kiss. Don't have gum... that freaks me out, and no one can ever take it out in time to go in for the big kiss. Remember to breathe, and you can peek, but don't keep your eyes open, and stare at her. That's a little creepy lol But, just go with the flow, don't stiffen up. You'll be fine. All first kisses aren't like the ones in the movie, remember that. Good luck to you!
2006-06-20 07:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by susan81382 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the movie, Hitch, he gave excellent advice. Never rush in to kiss a woman, when you kiss, move in 90% and pause, let her come the other 10%. In that way you are not over stepping yourself, and allowing her to initiate your first kiss.
2006-06-20 06:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she wants to be kissed. Don't be shy or shaky. Tell her you have never kissed a girl before and you want to learn how to do it correctly.
2006-06-20 07:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by Shawn B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you truly care from her, your feelings will just flow and it will all come out and it will be great! but i don't know if you can truly believe, so here's what you can do. make eye contact so she has an idea that you might kiss her. being caught off guard isn't always fun for a first kiss, so yeah. smile as you look into her eyes, and lean closer. take a breath, close your eyes, and slowly touch your lips to hers. from there you could stop, or keep going farther. as for practicing on stuff, i dunno. good luck!
2006-06-10 08:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try practicing on a balloon first to get the head position right.
Then when it comes to the real thing, put one of your palms on her cheek or chin so you can hold her head still & know where to aim for. Lean in sloooowly (I'd suggest keeping your eyes open till the last second) and tilt your head slightly as you place your lips on hers. Et Voila! One First Kiss.
Practice LOTS with the balloon first tho.
Good Luck! ;-)
2006-06-06 07:42:31 · answer #11 · answered by Yo! 02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋